BubbaGrump
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OK, you all might think I'm crazy, but I've had a change of heart about Tyler going to camp. I've been thinking about it a lot and I had a long talk with Tyler about it over dinner. I just started by asking him if he's sure he wants to try camp, we talked about his first attempt at an overnight (on the PC cruise) when he got kicked out around 1am, talked about his reaction to unfamiliar situations and chaos and stress, etc., talked about how he usually reacts when in those situations, and also the possibility of him being asked to leave if he gets out of control and too aggressive. I reminded him how sad he was when he was kicked out of the overnight on the cruise. He assures me he wouldn't let him bother him too much because he would know he can just try again next year. He seems pretty confident he can make it, and is fully aware of his issues and behaviors.
But here's the important part.....a part I somehow had forgotten about before, or maybe was too focused on not wanting him to go, I don't know, but Tyler asked me if he could try the THREE DAY camp the first time. I'd totally forgotten about that option! So I agreed and told him I'd tell his dad tomorrow. It's 6/25-7/1.
Am I crazy for letting him do this? No matter what happens, its only 3 days, so if things go badly, he doesn't have to go again. And if he loves it and does well, I'll let him go for 1 week next year and 2 the following IF he wants to.
I hate that his dad will feel a sense of victory.But Tyler's ecstatic, so that's all that matters.
Not that my vote is worth much, but I vote NO. Sorry, but I think the special needs camp would be way more his speed. Of course hes gonna say that he can handle it, he wants to go! But what about the kid or kids who may have their camp experiance ruined if he indeed has a serious meltdown. Just not fair to them or Tyler. I think you may be agreeing to set him up for a bad fall. Especially with his recent behavior at school, don't you think a bit more "expert" and one on one supervision is necessary? I'm just sayin'.....