When Maryann and Nigel decided to get married, we worked with the Trinadadian embassy, and were were able to get her mom a 10 year visitor visa (that was one time living here in DC really helped). She came up for the wedding. We got her a ticket when Kira was born. Once the 10 years expired, they were happy to re-issue the visa for her because we all made sure all the laws were followed and all of the "t's were crossed and i's were dotted".
Once Maryann got her Green card, she could travel to Trinadad. Her dad has never come the USA. So she had gone home to see her dad.
Here is the scary part...Maryann is now 36 and I am 51 and I am older than her mom!! Maryann also had 2 older brothers. (I think her mom was 12 when she started having children.) One committed suicide (he hated Trinadad that much) and the other one came here to the USA after Mayann had success here. He has worked had and should be getting his green card soon!!
I am glad Pres Obama did not nominate me for Sec of Labor...I would have embarassed him with all my illegal alien ties!! But at least I pay my taxes!!