Was there ever a little kid that u just didn't like?

[roliepolieoliefan]

There is this little girl in my daughter's class. (kindergarten) that used to be DD's friend. I'm not sure what happened, but now the little girl makes these little comments to my daughter.

I sent a princess spoon in with my daughter to eat her yogurt and she told her "princesses are for babies" I told my daughter you are a baby , you're in kindergarten.. In turn, my daughter told her she doesn't like the character she likes and told her he is for boys because my big brother likes him.

Then DD told me the "mean girl" stuck her tongue out at her at school. My daughter told her , my mom said to ignore you because you're a mean little girl".

We seen her and the mother at a birthday party today. The "mean girl" just glared at my daughter when she walked by. At 6, are u kidding me?

Its starting already! I don't like that kid. I didn't like her at the beginning of the year either. i volunteer alot at school and see the mom and kid pretty regularly. They both have this high and mighty attitude. I know where the kid gets it from.

When they were both walking past me at the birthday party, I had this uncontrollable urge to stick out my foot. LOL I know there will be way more worse issues than this in her school years...but it was fresh on my mind and I just needed to vent.

 

[bumbershoot]

Sure!

I disliked some kids as a kid, and nothing has changed as I grew up. Some humans are just not comfy to be with.


And of course it's starting now. My friend's daughter is a preteen now, but her personality changed entirely, and NOT for the better, once she started kindergarten. She had been in "school" since she was 2, but stayed the same through that time, then pretty much after the 2nd day of K she was just nasty and rude and sassy ALL the time.


We homeschool DS, but he has gymnastics, swim, and PE at the YMCA, and I see lots of different kids. Most are fine, even if hyper. But a few...there's just no chance I could let DS play with outside of those classes, b/c I just don't like 'em and don't want their influence on my son.

 

[Luv Bunnies]

There will always be kids like that in your DDs class. They say mean or off the wall things to get attention. These kids don't care if they're getting positive or negative attention. They just want the focus to be on them. Your DD would do well to start ignoring those kinds of kids now. If she stops feeding their need for attention, they'll move on to someone else or give up all together.

 

[iwrbnd]

Sorry to hear that. There are definately some girls I stray my daughter away from! We have a little girl in our neighborhood that pulls the "princesses are for babies" thing on my daughter. This really gets to me because after having 3 boys I want to enjoy the princesses with her for as long as possible! The last time this little girl said that I said "Hmmm...I'm 42 and I still love the princesses!" My little girl and some of her other friends that were over just smiled real big! I think they felt relieved because they all love the princesses and it gave them permission to still like them. Too bad some kids have to ruin for others.

 

[MushyMushy]

Oh! I can do you one better. How about being a teacher and having the ones who were mean to your child in your own class? Or having the child of someone who bullied you relentlessly through childhood?

Fun times.

 

[Tinijocaro]

I'm a teacher-need I say more? I'd never show it though.

 

[cinmell]

Oh yes!!!!!!!

 

[PatsGirl]

Yep, and more and more the older she gets. At her birthday dinner Friday night, two of her so-called friends were just plain rude to her and the other guests. I only did the dinner part of the party and then they all went to her Dads for a sleepover. When I called her in the am to see how things went, she mentioned the two girls and how she wished she hadn't invited them When they weren't dictating the nights' events, they were ignoring everyone and texting each other on their phones.

We talked a bit about it and how to determine who your real friends are, but it is difficult. She has decided that out of the ten girls she invited, only five are real friends. It hurts to see the way some of the kids treat each other.

I'm really glad the sleepover wasn't at my house because I'm not one to ignore a situation and if it really was as bad as DD said it was, I most likely would have invited the girls to call their parents and go home since they weren't having fun

It starts with princess spoons, escalates to clothing and electronics, and then just gets plain ole' nasty, little bees

 

[disykat]

. My daughter told her , my mom said to ignore you because you're a mean little girl".

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That was unfortunate.

The hardest part about dealing with mean people is not to stoop to their level.

 

[lillygator]

Oh! I can do you one better. How about being a teacher and having the ones who were mean to your child in your own class? Or having the child of someone who bullied you relentlessly through childhood?

Fun times.

teachers are allowed to have their own students in their class?


yes, I think there is a least one in every class or group.

 

[MushyMushy]

teachers are allowed to have their own students in their class?


yes, I think there is a least one in every class or group.

Actually, they are allowed to have their own kids in their class in our school district (at least in the older grades), but that wasn't what I meant. My sentence structure wasn't great and it was confusing. The child I'm talking about wasn't mean to my daughter in my class. She was mean to my daughter from kindergarten through 5th grade and then I had the girl in 6th. Then I saw that the girl was mean to EVERYbody and not just my daughter. But boy it's not easy remembering the tears all those years gone by and have to be completely objective with the mean kid.

 

[Katie's Butterflies]

I really like most children but some…

There was a little girl in my neighborhood (about 10 yo) whom I could not stand. When someone would walk a dog, she’d throw rocks at the dog! She would push younger children and laugh if they got hurt. She was a little monster at times. The final straw though was when my mom and I were going somewhere. We were driving down the street and had to stop the car. She rode her bike into the front side of the car! She stared at us for a moment then theatrically fell to the ground blocking us from leaving. My mom rolled down her window and just started shouting at the girl (A child had recently been killed by a car, so a very sore subject!). The girl started laughing, but got up and skipped inside. I had to move the bike. UGH luckily they moved.

 

[ilovepcot]

There's a young woman in my family who was "troublesome" from the time she had blonde silky ringlets. DH, several of my cousins and I all agree she's very much like the little blonde haired girl in the movie, "The Bad Seed". It seems the "senior" people in our family find her adorable and it's futile to tell them any different. She has no conscience and is very cruel...especially to the ones who are so good to her. It's impossible to "like" her but we tolerate her because of who she is.

 

[Disney Doll]

Yes there have been children I have not liked and I firmly believe that some people are just bad seeds, and it's evident starting from their childhood.

 

[krcit]

There is this little girl in my daughter's class. (kindergarten) that used to be DD's friend. I'm not sure what happened, but now the little girl makes these little comments to my daughter.

I sent a princess spoon in with my daughter to eat her yogurt and she told her "princesses are for babies" I told my daughter you are a baby , you're in kindergarten.. In turn, my daughter told her she doesn't like the character she likes and told her he is for boys because my big brother likes him.

Then DD told me the "mean girl" stuck her tongue out at her at school. My daughter told her , my mom said to ignore you because you're a mean little girl".

We seen her and the mother at a birthday party today. The "mean girl" just glared at my daughter when she walked by. At 6, are u kidding me?

Its starting already! I don't like that kid. I didn't like her at the beginning of the year either. i volunteer alot at school and see the mom and kid pretty regularly. They both have this high and mighty attitude. I know where the kid gets it from.

When they were both walking past me at the birthday party, I had this uncontrollable urge to stick out my foot. LOL I know there will be way more worse issues than this in her school years...but it was fresh on my mind and I just needed to vent.

If you'll take a bit of advice from a mom of 3 kids(2 girls)..I would try not to get too involved in it. Sounds like your dd gave back as good as she got regarding the princess comment and as for the sticking her tongue out at her Certainly not nice but they are 6. Your dd telling her that my mom said you're a mean little girl is kind of harsh. I wouldn't want to ve someone's friend if they told me that their mom said I'm mean, lol. trust me, your dd will deal with a lot worse as she moves through school. Try not to get overly involved, kids need to learn how to stand up for themselves.
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[luvmy3]

That was unfortunate.

The hardest part about dealing with mean people is not to stoop to their level.

Kudo's to the OP's dd for telling it like it is. The OP shouldn't have to sugar coat things, she should be telling her dd to ignore the girl because she's being mean. When my dd had trouble with a girl in her 4th grade class I told her the same thing and when she told me the girl asked why she was ignoring her I told her to tell her that your mom told you to. That little girl wrote me a note and told me that she was sick and tired of being ignored and that my dd better not do it anymore (her exact words) I laughed it off, but I would have no problem if my dd happen to tell that girl I said she was mean. Luckily they out grew their differences and get along although I wouldn't consider them friends.
So to answer your question OP, there have been kids that I haven't liked

 

[NikitaZee]

Yup, OP - had that problem this afternoon! My 5 year old has a little girl in her class that's bossy and unkind to a lot of the kids in the class - I've had parent/teacher conferences about this one child and fortunately, my daughter's not the only on being picked on by this child. "Lily''s parents have been spoken to, so hopefully it will resolve. But ... at a birthday party this afternoon, 'Lily' was being mean as usual to the kids around her. My daughter and one of her pals were talking about the NY Yankees and being fans of the team, and 'Lily' said "Yankee fans eat potty dirt and should be living on the streets". I looked at her and said "That was a very unkind thing to say". I assume she heard those comments at home, so maybe she'll pass my comment on to her parents. I hope so. In either case, I've met her mom and I know exactly where the high and mighty attitude comes from. I have no problem telling my daughter - 'Go ahead and tell Lily that you can't have a friendship with her if she continues being mean to you'. I see nothing wrong with that message at all.

 

[roliepolieoliefan]

If you'll take a bit of advice from a mom of 3 kids(2 girls)..I would try not to get too involved in it. Sounds like your dd gave back as good as she got regarding the princess comment and as for the sticking her tongue out at her Certainly not nice but they are 6. Your dd telling her that my mom said you're a mean little girl is kind of harsh. I wouldn't want to ve someone's friend if they told me that their mom said I'm mean, lol. trust me, your dd will deal with a lot worse as she moves through school. Try not to get overly involved, kids need to learn how to stand up for themselves.
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Regarding the mean girl comment. I said to DD , ignore her when she is mean to you because she is just a mean little girl. Well when the girl stuck her tongue out , DD did basically repeat what I said.
It may be wrong but I don't feel bad . The thing is I find it hard to believe this mother doesn't know how her kid acts. The way the mother acts, she probably encourages it. And as I've told DD, you need to learn to stand up for yourself now because unfortunately you will meet girls alot worse.

Now I found out from DD on Friday DD asked the "mean girl" a question and the "mean girl" told my DD. "Just go away"!

Would you let the teacher know of the "mean girls" behavior or just let the kids handle it?

 

[kinntj]

This happens in my DD's Kindergarten class. There's two girls (the oldest and biggest) in the class that pushes a couple of the smaller/shy girls away and tell them they don't want to play with them. I asked the teacher about it and she said, yep it's the same kids that do this. One of the mothers is the PTA chairperson and I was shocked to learn this.

She may want to help in the PTA to better the schools for her child, but maybe she should teach her child to behave to make school better for other kids.

 

[krcit]

Regarding the mean girl comment. I said to DD , ignore her when she is mean to you because she is just a mean little girl. Well when the girl stuck her tongue out , DD did basically repeat what I said.
It may be wrong but I don't feel bad . The thing is I find it hard to believe this mother doesn't know how her kid acts. The way the mother acts, she probably encourages it. And as I've told DD, you need to learn to stand up for yourself now because unfortunately you will meet girls alot worse.

Now I found out from DD on Friday DD asked the "mean girl" a question and the "mean girl" told my DD. "Just go away"!

Would you let the teacher know of the "mean girls" behavior or just let the kids handle it?[/Q

Oh, ok got ya I would and have told my kids they same thing "If so and so is being mean to you just ignore her b/c they are just a mean kid" Of course they then go and repeat what you said, lol

I don't know what I would do about school. Maybe mention to the teacher that the mean girl is not nice to your dd so that she is aware and can intervene if neccessary. Good luck. It's so hard raising kids isn't it??