Was I right or was I wrong??? - UPDATE

[cati]

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[sue1013]

It's always better to be honest. When you're upfront and honest things always seem to work out.

 

[Crankyshank]

I think you absolutely did the right thing.

 

[Mimi Q]

Sounds like you were just being honest with her. I don't think you go wrong when you are just telling someone how you really feel.

 

[doxdogy]

You did the right thing. You have to do what is right in your heart.

 

[kadaten]

You absolutely did the right thing!
They should appreciate your honesty. Many people in your shoes would not have had the same courtesy you did, and they know it. I wouldn't be surprised if you've gained a few "points" in their eyes because of it.