TxRabbit
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Oh yes, THAT type. No no, totally hear you.
Okay I can't say much about the Epcot resorts, but that is a plus b/c you can always leave the park and walk back to room... RE AKV or SSR, I liked SSR. But relying on ME could be dicey... if you all have a car, no problem, but that does keep people tied to the same tour unless others are okay taking the bus back... I suspect AKV or SSR would offer more peace and quiet... and doesn't AK have their own busses? I had no problem with renting points. I think it is the way to go. That is how we are going to BCV in Dec. SSR also gets you to DTD easily with a boat or a nice long walk -- in summer maybe not so nice...
BUT you stayed at BC, right? And BW both seem great. I can't wait for our stay... So proxemity is nice to be able to do your own thing, without feeling that you are dragging others into your plans... They might appreciate that?
No help, I realize.But that is a legitimate question to even ask her.
I loved the Epcot resorts. We spent time in Epcot and DHS on that trip, so it felt wonderful to be there. Taking the boat. Walking. Very nice. Having transportation be so laid back really kept that vacation feeling alive, KWIM?
And it would be good for easy individual touring. BUT, it's likely that we will all have our cars. Peter's family really isn't the flying type. Let's see. My youngest SIL, the one that's engaged, is 21 now, and she went on her first airplane when she was a SENIOR in HIGH SCHOOL!!

I took Bolt on his first plane at 4.5 months and he has been on a steady diet of air travel ever since, thanks to a set of Grandparents (my mom and dad) living in a different state from us.
The thing is that SIL is one of those drag along kind of people. We all exchanged ideas for the perfect vacation for ourselves. Our family picked Disney as a whole, snowboarding for Peter's love, cruising for me (Alaska/Mediterranean), which made Peter want to hike/backpack/hunt all over Alaska, and SIL's perfect vacation was a homacation. I was like

So. That's what we get to deal with. Seriously. I have no thought of taking her on a trip and having her fall in love with Disney. And I'm okay with that. I just need her to not HATE Disney.
I also started checking out vacation homes. I read a PTR about Windsor Hills. I saw some pretty cool houses. It would also satisfy that need to be able to accomodate more people, in the event of... also, if we ended up in such a residence, Peter's parents might come along as well and just not go to any of the parks.
It is totally NOT my idea of a great Disney vacation, but maybe this would be a good trip to do a bit more than Disney. Like an Orlando vacation or something.

It's only one trip. It's only one trip. It's only one trip.

The way for me to deal with this is to put together a couple of scenarios and present them to her. They have to be ones that I find acceptable of course. Then let her pick what sounds the best to her. I'm happy to hear something nice about SSR. I really like the proximity to DTD. Plus, it's supposed to have some nice spa services there. SIL MIGHT be into something not too extreme.
I don't want to paint her as a pain in the rear. She's not. I actually appreciate how straight forward the desires, needs, and wants are. She is a very responsible person. She is basically supporting her two sisters, herself, and to a certain extent, her parents. Finances are very important, so I have to be able to get the best bang for the buck for sure. AND, I have to be able to set up a vacation that everyone can find enjoyable.
I know that Bolt will have fun with his cousins. I just hope that the DD matures enough that there isn't any major upsets when the boys want to ride together and she rides with her mom, etc etc. Three is a bit of a rough number.
It's a good thing I like challenges.
