Here's my opinion as someone who has lived in apartments and now a condominium for her entire adult life...
In our last apartment, and now the condo that DH and I live in, outside guests are only able to use the pool if they are a guest of a resident. Each residency is restricted in the number of guests that they may have at one time.
To have a guest in the pool, we are required to sign them in and get them a guest pass ($5 per pass).
The policy is totally necessary, since the pool is a common area with limited space.
In our last apartment, this policy was not enforced, and every maid who came to clean an apartment, the pool staff and others would bring their friends and family in to use the pool. It was a small pool, and it got to be ridiculous. The pool would literally be full of people who did not live there, and the people who were paying a premium rent to live there could not enjoy the facilities.
Where we live now, we do not have that problem, and that's because the pool staff enforces the policy.
I think for a situation like this, perhaps a similar policy could be in place to require that a person staying at a resort be required to sign in their friends and purchase a guest pass; and if the resort or pool is already or expected to be at or near capacity the staff would turn outside visitors away. Also, there should only be one or two visitors allowed per room, with a limitation on the total number of guest passes that are issued in one day.
This, I think, balances the rights of the guests who are paying money to stay at a resort with the understandable desire of another guest to have a visitor.
If this is not sufficient, then maybe the parties involved could plan to book their stays at the same resort. They don't have to spend every second together just because they're at the same resort (heck, they could be at opposite ends, which would be
far at a place like OKW)!
But, that's just my opinion (for what that's worth!)
