ME?! A bad influence?!
totally.
I know.
I don't know if the weekender could pass for a purse...then again, if you carry it by the shoulder straps and take the incriminating cross body "I'M A CARRY ON" strap off of it you might be able to get away with it!

That being said, I've seen two different incidences with VB bags being called out as "too big". One was a large duffle (I love mine too, great for longer road trips!!!) that was absolutely STUFFED to the gills. Those bags are big as it is, filling them to capacity makes them look enormous! The bag had to be checked. Passenger NOT happy. The other time was a Get Carried Away tote, similarly filled but the mom had one and her little bitty daughter had one...clearly not hers. She had to stop every few feet and put it down. It was as big as she was!! The mom was able to argue that everyone is allowed a carry on and a personal item. I didn't blame her though...the checked bag fees are insane. The weekender is sized in such a way though that if you don't pack it near to bursting you could probably call it a purse and not get grief from anyone!!
It terms of patterns...I tend to buy different patterns in things b/c I like so many of the patterns and colors and I think I would get sick of the same thing. Some people like to get a matching wallet for each bag etc. My step daughter likes that a lot. Baroque is her current favorite pattern with boysenberry being her second favorite. Interestingly enough, the only pattern/color that I have more than two of the same is Boysenberry. I have a weekender, a large cosmetic bag, a Lizzy, and trip kit. Those were gifts for various things and I'm fairly certain my step daughter picked them all out! She likes things to match! She also likes to borrow from my collection...she's no dummy!
OH and I do have an Ipad case in Calypso. It fits the ipad nice and snug. Although after I got it I realized that it's a pretty big case in and of itself which makes it bulky to carry in other bags. Especially since VB makes bags that have laptop/ipad sleeves. If you want to carry it on it's own, it's great though. Very protective case. I use it on the train when I don't need to carry a lot more with me.
i'm so obsessed...and glad to have found people in the Dis who are obsessed too so we can talk about our obsession!!!