Vent, please help before I explode =[

[cindys_castle2011]

Ahh dang I need to vent! I feel so ugh. Does anyone ever feel like that, where you can't really explain it. You just know somethings not right!!

Well.... When me and my ex-boyfriend was close to breaking about a month ago, I started talking to one of my old guy friends, that happens to be his friend. Well his girlfriend at the time, is my best friend. Well they were going through a difficult time at the same time me and my boyfriend was. So she asked me to text him for her. So I started texting him. Well we just talked and I loved talking to him cause he would help me with al my problems he was like my best friend. I could talk to him about anything! Well me and my bf broke up so me and *Chase became closer since I had more to talk about, then him and *Sally broke up, so we had even more to talk about. Well she broke up with him. And then she expected me to quit talking to him. But I didnt because he was the one that got hurt, and Ive been friends with him longer than Ive known her. Even though she's the reason we got really close. Well me and him has been gettin closer, and he started to like her again well she started dating another one of his friends, so he told me he was just going to give up on her, cause hes tired of getting hurt. Well now she started liking him again!!!! Ugh and shes mad cause he wont talk to her. And she gets mad at me when she find us texting or tlaking. Should I quit talking to him or what??

 

[TheAmazingSpidey]

And you posted this twice...why...?

 

[m-and-m]

when i get stuck in these sort of things i figure if one of my friends(a) doesn't want me talking to another friend(b), then (a) apparently dosn't trust me or is jealous and they don't need to stick around.

 

[DramaQueen]

I think for now you should stay out of it.
It's obvious Chase & Sally haven't worked everything out yet and there are probably still feelings there.

You can still be friends with both of them though.
But it's understandable that Sally may be jealous if you two are hanging out alot and stuff. I'd probably be jealous too.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

I think for now you should stay out of it.
It's obvious Chase & Sally haven't worked everything out yet and there are probably still feelings there.

You can still be friends with both of them though.
But it's understandable that Sally may be jealous if you two are hanging out alot and stuff. I'd probably be jealous too.

Yeah, but I've been friends with Chase for a long time!
Its like she can date other people but she gets mad if he trys to, he
if she finds out that he's talking to someone she says she likes him
so he comes back to her and he ends up getting hurt. but now she's
saying shes for real this time that she really wants him back.
But I told him just to move on, its for the better, is that bad for me
to say that to him?

And those names are fake by the way ;]

 

[Lizbon]

Like Caitlin said, I'd probably be jealous too but I see no reason for you to stop talking to him. He is your friend, and *Sally should understand that. It may just take her awhile to realize she can't control who you do and do not talk to.

 

[DramaQueen]

Yeah, but I've been friends with Chase for a long time!
Its like she can date other people but she gets mad if he trys to, he
if she finds out that he's talking to someone she says she likes him
so he comes back to her and he ends up getting hurt. but now she's
saying shes for real this time that she really wants him back.
But I told him just to move on, its for the better, is that bad for me
to say that to him?

And those names are fake by the way ;]

It's always tough to see a friend go back to someone and keep getting hurt.
It's probably even tougher when you kind of have feelings for him.
You could tell him to try and get over it, but then if you do that and try to 'get with him', he may think you told him to get over Sally for the wrong reasons and could end up hurt or angry (even though I'm sure that's not your intention!)

It is a REALLY tough situation, you could talk to him about it and stuff, but sometimes, you just have to let people figure it out for themselves when they are in a situation like Chase is.



++ I figured they were fake names

 

[DramaQueen]

Like Caitlin said, I'd probably be jealous too but I see no reason for you to stop talking to him. He is your friend, and *Sally should understand that. It may just take her awhile to realize she can't control who you do and do not tlk to.

yeah that too!! Sally shouldn't STOP you two from talking at all.
Girls are silly like that though. I've known tons of girls to break up with a guy and then get a new BF, but as soon as the ex-BF gets a new GF they go into jealous fits of rage.
It's just the way some girls are...unfortunatley.

But don't let her stop you guys from talking, if she's your friend just try to talk to her about it.
If she has a new BF she has no right to tell Chase and you to stop talking.
(even if she DIDNt have a new BF too for that matter!)

 

[Lizbon]

Haha again I agree. Girls are weird like that. And guys probably are too, they just don't show it as much. A girl could completly hate her ex, and then when he gets a new gf she will get extremly jealous.