JandD Mom,
I'm not sure what will happen. They have changed the lingo on the members web site: "Valet Parking at the Walt Disney World® Resort
Valet parking is complimentary for Members staying at Disney's BoardWalk Resort, Disney's Wilderness Lodge, and Disney's Beach Club Resort. Just show your Disney Vacation Club Member ID Card. Parking is not available for Theme Park access."
I'm pretty sure that the DVC web site did not used to say "for members staying at" ...