Timeshare exchanging is a totally different mentality than general
DVC usage. You must be willing to put in a request and wait on it to see if anything happens. Success usually occurs at 2-6 months out which can be too late in some cases for cheap air fare. The other issue is that if you want what everyone else wants when they want it, your chances of success are not very good.
Another problem I see with DVC owners and timeshare exchanges is that DVC members tend to make too many assumptions when making exchanges. These can come in a number of areas but include assuming that any exchange on the DVC list is up to DVC standards, it simply isn't so. When one accepts an exchange (through DVC or otherwise), it is important to find out about the resort including any idiosyncrasies that might affect your exchange experience, extra fees, resort quality, any construction and how well the resort meets your desired goals.
Examples include that some resorts charge extra for certain services that most would think are necessities such as AC. Maybe they put exchangers in the worst locations like Cliff's club or Lawaii Beach. Maybe you will get a parking lot view when you were expecting a beach or mountain view.
Lisa is referring to the idea that DVC charges exchangers a $95 fee which is mandatory mostly because they can. While I don't agree with the fee, it's no big deal to me and to be honest, a lot of timeshare do things that are worse (IMO) and you don't know until you get there. The idea that resorts shouldn't extend small courtesies to thier members like restaurant discounts, free putt putt or free movies rentals is an unreasonable one. I think Lisa is simply stating what some people feel, but if these issues (other than maybe the $95 fee) make someone feel like they are second class citizens, they are being unreasonable. The $95 fee is referenced in the II book and is made clear up front and they can decide to accept it or not before they exchange in. If they decide to accept it, they should live with their decision and not gripe about it later. This has been a topic of debate on TUG which Lisa is privy to but most DVC members don't see. Maybe DVC members would like to check out the latest installment at
TUG thread
Do your research, plan ahead (at least 12 months) and be as flexible as possible and your chances are great that things will work out. Also realize that once you accept an exchange, you are on your own. If the resort is wiped out 2 weeks before your travel, II will have no responsibility.