I think she will enjoy US and IOA. I've only been to Sea World once and I didn't really get to see too much but I think she would enjoy it. I have been to US and IOA many times though. I also refuse to ride EE and RRC, but I absolutely love Universal Orlando.
At US, there is only 1 "rollercoaster" and that is Revenge of the Mummy, which I hear isn't as bad as EE and I personally like the Mummy. The other rides are tons of fun! You have ET, Twister, Back to the Future, Jaws, Earthquake, Shrek, Jimmy Neutron, and a bunch of other shows. Plus you have lots of characters and there is a children's area with some fun stuff and a waterslide.
At IOA, there are 2 or 3 rollercoasters plus a freefall(somewhat similar to ToT). And there are quite a few other rides, including several water rides. Lots of shows, too. Spiderman is a must ride!

Then there is the whole Dr. Seuss area which is very neat with some fun rides.
I think you and your daughter will love it!....especially since you will have the express pass! Let me know if you have any questions.