Browneyes - I didn't want her to panic since we don't know for sure. But she knows now. She asked her best friend what was going on (her best friend works at the dr. office and also lives with us in the summer). Her friend told her. She was mad at me for not telling her but said she understood why I didn't. I told her that I didn't want her to panic especially if and hopefully all is negative. She said, "mom have you ever known me to panic over anything?", I said, well no, and she said well ok then. Ok I wont do that again. I have to remember even though she is 19 she's also not a kid anymore. She starts college in 3 weeks and I just didn't want to put any added stress on her. I should have known better this kid just glides thru life and has handled some tough situations before. thanks again for the prayers