Brady's Mom
Get off the roof, get off the roof!
- Joined
- Jan 13, 2008
- Messages
- 1,546
I have discovered in my evolution from a "not say anything, suffer in silence person" to a "you must make this right for me person", that NICELY and FIRMLY will usually get you what you want. A lot of times the first person that you speak to either doesn't have the authority to do anything or are afraid to do anything because they don't want to get in trouble.
Always ask to speak to someone higher up if you don't feel you are being treated fairly. I have found that when I am nice and firm and specific about what I want and how this is inappropriate that I can usually get the problem resolved.
Although I have never had a problem at DLR, I wouldn't hesitate to say something when I am there. I think sending an email later helps, but I think that saying something right there and asking for a resolution is even better.
And I still get all freaked out and shaky when I have to confront someone about something. But, I have learned from my DH that I can do it and not be a *itch about it.
Always ask to speak to someone higher up if you don't feel you are being treated fairly. I have found that when I am nice and firm and specific about what I want and how this is inappropriate that I can usually get the problem resolved.
Although I have never had a problem at DLR, I wouldn't hesitate to say something when I am there. I think sending an email later helps, but I think that saying something right there and asking for a resolution is even better.
And I still get all freaked out and shaky when I have to confront someone about something. But, I have learned from my DH that I can do it and not be a *itch about it.
