luna99
Oh great. Now we've got a yeti. - Jamie from Mythb
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so I haven't even considered doing this.... I know it's optional and I know it's supposed to symbolize my DF and I coming together in marriage....
how many of you have done it and did you do it because it's tradition or because you really love the idea of it?
I asked my DF if he wanted to and he said we could but I don't know if he said that because he thinks I want to or he really wants to.
I think the reason I may do it is only to make the ceremony last longer..haha. in some ways I feel like the ceremony is probably going to fly by and it might be nice to extend it a bit and really cherish the moment of actually getting married.
so opinons? thoughts on the unity candle stuff please? and how long does that part usually take?
how many of you have done it and did you do it because it's tradition or because you really love the idea of it?
I asked my DF if he wanted to and he said we could but I don't know if he said that because he thinks I want to or he really wants to.
I think the reason I may do it is only to make the ceremony last longer..haha. in some ways I feel like the ceremony is probably going to fly by and it might be nice to extend it a bit and really cherish the moment of actually getting married.
so opinons? thoughts on the unity candle stuff please? and how long does that part usually take?