justhat said:I understand the name stealing. I really don't care much what other people name their kids, but my son will be Henry Joseph, which would have been my daughter's name if she were a boy too. Henry was my dad's name and he died when I was 17 so I really wanted to use his name and Joseph is my husband, FIL, and GFIL. So there was a reason behind the name. Well then our friends, after asking us what we were going to name our kid before we knew she was a girl, took the name for their son who was born 4 months after our daughter. So now all of our friends say "Oh, like the Floyd's son" when we tell them what we're going to name our son. I don't mind that they used the name, but now everyone thinks we're copying them!
OT -- I had an issue with name stealing too! I was pregnant the same time my husband's sister-in-law was. My husband is Jack, Jr., so if we had a boy he was going to be named Jack. Well, my husband's brother says if they have a boy they are going to name him Jack. Well, we were a little upset but my husband didn't really like his name anyway. So we decide that if it is a boy then we will name him Brenden. Well, SIL has her baby first and it's a boy and she names him BRENDEN. It's a good thing they live 2 hours away!! I ended up having a girl, so it ended up ok but I still can't believe they did that!