cindys_castle2011
<font color=deeppink> Gary Allan=♥ <font color=gre
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I thought drama ended at like age 18. I have a 40 year old woman "threatening" me!
It started yesterday. This girl that likes Garrett put on her Facebook status.
"OMG! I got a donk!" -Garrett. haha (
"
Me and this girl get along pretty well I guess. We've never had any problems, but Garrett HATES her!
Well I commented on it, just joking around, and just put "....................." and we were like joking back and forth.
Well Garrett comes on and was like "I didn't say OMG I don't even text that". Well they were just going back and forth arguing. She caught like a huge attitude with him, and I just commented and was like "watch it sister" and she was like "ahw, kelsi i was JKin. "
Well later this morning that girls mom comes on and says
"Stasia delete Kelsi - anyone who is gonna make a threat by saying watch it sister does not need to be on my daughter's list. and it is NOT her place to say shut it down. If GP is being serious like he's ragging then delete him too. you don't need the drama and I'm not gonna tolerate it you're still a kid and you're MY kid I'm the only one who has the right to tell ya what to do especially if it's threatening"
So I just message the mom, to clear a few things up and say
"I'm sorry.. What I was saying to your daughter was not a threat. It was indeed telling her or asking her not to catch an attitude with my boyfriend. And by saying "shut it down" I was saying, end this. It's stupid and does not need to carry on with the arguing. I was not threatening anyone ? I messaged you because I'd rather not have an adult embarrassing me like that over facebook. I'd rather keep it private. But like I said, I wasn't trying to threaten her, and I'm sure her and Garrett and Lauren knew that. "
So.. thinking I was going to get a message back, I got a notification.
Her mom went back to the status comment and says
This is the message I got from Kelsi- AND COPIED AND PASTED IT!
Then says, "indeed using the words watch it sister is a threat not a request and her attitude with your boyfriend is between the two of them. and your being sure she (stasia) knew it was not a threat well you are wrong .. she saw it as you getting an attitude. Now as for an adult embarrassing you over facebook you should consider not trying to embarrass or be condensending to that adult's child. do you not deem it embarrassing to have a third party jump in and make a bold statement? isn't that what you did by using such strong words as 'watch it sister' and then trying to be so bold with your words to me? an apology is not to be followed with a statement intended to correct the other person. so you watch it sister with what you comment to someone else."
I, being stubborn, has to say something back. But whats the point of messaging, if its just going to be put on their anyway. So I commented back and said
"So it's okay for an adult to "threaten" a child, but not a child to another child. Because you indeed just threatened me by telling me to "watch it". I'm not a rude person, so I'm not going to sit here an argue with an elder. But, one- I was not jumping into a conversation. I was the first one to comment on her status. two- I tried to message you to keep this privite. You writing what I said on here and replying to it via staus comment, is one of the rudest and immature things I have ever seen or heard of. and three- I was not messaging you too apologize. I didn't do anything wrong. My "I'm sorry" was sarcastic, not an apology."
It might have sounded rude, but I am heated right now. Like seriously what ADULT would do this?
It started yesterday. This girl that likes Garrett put on her Facebook status.
"OMG! I got a donk!" -Garrett. haha (
"Me and this girl get along pretty well I guess. We've never had any problems, but Garrett HATES her!
Well I commented on it, just joking around, and just put "....................." and we were like joking back and forth.
Well Garrett comes on and was like "I didn't say OMG I don't even text that". Well they were just going back and forth arguing. She caught like a huge attitude with him, and I just commented and was like "watch it sister" and she was like "ahw, kelsi i was JKin.
" Well later this morning that girls mom comes on and says
"Stasia delete Kelsi - anyone who is gonna make a threat by saying watch it sister does not need to be on my daughter's list. and it is NOT her place to say shut it down. If GP is being serious like he's ragging then delete him too. you don't need the drama and I'm not gonna tolerate it you're still a kid and you're MY kid I'm the only one who has the right to tell ya what to do especially if it's threatening"
So I just message the mom, to clear a few things up and say
"I'm sorry.. What I was saying to your daughter was not a threat. It was indeed telling her or asking her not to catch an attitude with my boyfriend. And by saying "shut it down" I was saying, end this. It's stupid and does not need to carry on with the arguing. I was not threatening anyone ? I messaged you because I'd rather not have an adult embarrassing me like that over facebook. I'd rather keep it private. But like I said, I wasn't trying to threaten her, and I'm sure her and Garrett and Lauren knew that. "
So.. thinking I was going to get a message back, I got a notification.
Her mom went back to the status comment and says
This is the message I got from Kelsi- AND COPIED AND PASTED IT!
Then says, "indeed using the words watch it sister is a threat not a request and her attitude with your boyfriend is between the two of them. and your being sure she (stasia) knew it was not a threat well you are wrong .. she saw it as you getting an attitude. Now as for an adult embarrassing you over facebook you should consider not trying to embarrass or be condensending to that adult's child. do you not deem it embarrassing to have a third party jump in and make a bold statement? isn't that what you did by using such strong words as 'watch it sister' and then trying to be so bold with your words to me? an apology is not to be followed with a statement intended to correct the other person. so you watch it sister with what you comment to someone else."
I, being stubborn, has to say something back. But whats the point of messaging, if its just going to be put on their anyway. So I commented back and said
"So it's okay for an adult to "threaten" a child, but not a child to another child. Because you indeed just threatened me by telling me to "watch it". I'm not a rude person, so I'm not going to sit here an argue with an elder. But, one- I was not jumping into a conversation. I was the first one to comment on her status. two- I tried to message you to keep this privite. You writing what I said on here and replying to it via staus comment, is one of the rudest and immature things I have ever seen or heard of. and three- I was not messaging you too apologize. I didn't do anything wrong. My "I'm sorry" was sarcastic, not an apology."
It might have sounded rude, but I am heated right now. Like seriously what ADULT would do this?
