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I have been coming on this board for 12 yrs now. I never registered and never posted before. I also have been following this with great interest. I am sorry that some poeple have holier then thou attitudes. They must have some pretty negitive people in their lives to think someone would make something of this up. You explained yourself and you apologized numerous of times from what I see. My heart broke for you when I read your post. Im happy you have supportive family you are turning to. Dont let some of the people here get you down. You have received some wonderful advise from people. Please follow it. Im sure some spoke from experience. I have never been in a situation like this so I cant give alot of advise from experience. I do know the hurt will not go away anytime soon. He is not the person you fell in love with. He never was. Im am so sorry you are going through this. You are in my prayers. :grouphug:
 
I have been coming on this board for 12 yrs now. I never registered and never posted before. I also have been following this with great interest. I am sorry that some poeple have holier then thou attitudes. They must have some pretty negitive people in their lives to think someone would make something of this up. You explained yourself and you apologized numerous of times from what I see. My heart broke for you when I read your post. Im happy you have supportive family you are turning to. Dont let some of the people here get you down. You have received some wonderful advise from people. Please follow it. Im sure some spoke from experience. I have never been in a situation like this so I cant give alot of advise from experience. I do know the hurt will not go away anytime soon. He is not the person you fell in love with. He never was. Im am so sorry you are going through this. You are in my prayers. :grouphug:

I haven't seen anybody be ugly. I have seen some conflicting points that any reasonable person would wonder about (staying with a friend changes to sister, but she says none of her family knows about it yet). Also, if someone were using my account, I would make sure they said so (I see people do that from time to time).

I won't say now whether this is real or not. If it is, I stand by my advice. However, I definitely don't think anybody is being "holier than thou" or mean just because they raise the questions.
 
I have been coming on this board for 12 yrs now. I never registered and never posted before. I also have been following this with great interest. I am sorry that some poeple have holier then thou attitudes. They must have some pretty negitive people in their lives to think someone would make something of this up. You explained yourself and you apologized numerous of times from what I see. My heart broke for you when I read your post. Im happy you have supportive family you are turning to. Dont let some of the people here get you down. You have received some wonderful advise from people. Please follow it. Im sure some spoke from experience. I have never been in a situation like this so I cant give alot of advise from experience. I do know the hurt will not go away anytime soon. He is not the person you fell in love with. He never was. Im am so sorry you are going through this. You are in my prayers. :grouphug:

OK I was feeling pretty understanding of your mistake OP, until you created a user name and posted to defend yourself. Your writing style gave you away.

I really hope you do check out the SI website. There are forums just like the DIS which specifically address infidelity. There are lots of people there going through the same thing you are.

There is also what's called the "Healing Library" filled with all kinds of resources that can help you get through this.

:grouphug: and good luck to you.
 


:laughing: I was wondering the same..why bump this thread ?

And..if someone has been lurking on these threads for 12 years without posting (really?), they certainly know how folks on the boards like to keep people honest in their posts..should not have been a surprise that people will question indiscrepancies.
 
OK I was feeling pretty understanding of your mistake OP, until you created a user name and posted to defend yourself. Your writing style gave you away.
::yes:: Neither one of them can spell ADVICE correctly. :rolleyes1 :sad2:

My GOD.....I can see the confusion but I dont understand the meaness of some people. The person married to the wonderful fireman is my sister. She is the one who told me to come here and I would get alot of wonderful advise from people. That she has been on this site for years. I have never heard of it and I did give it a try. I shared an extremely hurtful situation I am going thru, my goodness, who on earth would make up something so horrible. I think the ones who have given extremely helpful advise and I am sorry to have bothered some with my horrible life at this time. I have removed my story and will nno longer come on this site.

I have been coming on this board for 12 yrs now. I never registered and never posted before. I also have been following this with great interest. I am sorry that some poeple have holier then thou attitudes. They must have some pretty negitive people in their lives to think someone would make something of this up. You explained yourself and you apologized numerous of times from what I see. My heart broke for you when I read your post. Im happy you have supportive family you are turning to. Dont let some of the people here get you down. You have received some wonderful advise from people. Please follow it. Im sure some spoke from experience. I have never been in a situation like this so I cant give alot of advise from experience. I do know the hurt will not go away anytime soon. He is not the person you fell in love with. He never was. Im am so sorry you are going through this. You are in my prayers. :grouphug:
 
My GOD.....I can see the confusion but I dont understand the meaness of some people. The person married to the wonderful fireman is my sister. She is the one who told me to come here and I would get alot of wonderful advise from people. That she has been on this site for years. I have never heard of it and I did give it a try. I shared an extremely hurtful situation I am going thru, my goodness, who on earth would make up something so horrible. I think the ones who have given extremely helpful advise and I am sorry to have bothered some with my horrible life at this time. I have removed my story and will nno longer come on this site.

So, she's been coming here for years, but only has 27 posts? And, she's been coming here for years, let you use her user name and didn't tell you to mention that you're not her? :idea::teacher:
 
Hello Everyone, My name is Denise and I am djy252...Yes my sister did use my name with my knowledge...I never ever thought what could happen....I honestly never thought to tell her to say she was my sister...yes I have been coming here since October of 2000...and yes I only have 27 posts....I have gotten alot of laughs...alot of recipes...alot of craft ideas from this site...I am married to fireman...I do have 2 children...my sister did go to her girlfriends when this first happened....yesterday morning when I met her for coffee and she told me...of course I wanted her here with me...and I thought if some people who were not connected like I am gave her the same advice as I did...it would easier for her to see...and of course I thought of this board...not to fool people... not to decieve people...not to dupe or whatever other words were used...I am trying to get this thread removed...Im not sure how to...for the people who were kind to her...thank you so much...it did help alot...for those who judged...well I will not say how I feel right now...but someone higher up will see that they get theirs..she is a total mess and feels guilty that she ruined my name on here...if all you so called smart people read my post they would of saw I am not someone who would of done such a thing. God Bless you all.
 
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