Two Sad Birthday Party Stories ...

TallyLassie

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SYRACUSE, N.Y. A Syracuse mother who dropped off her daughter at a birthday party and never returned has been charged with child abandonment.

Police say 28-year-old Quosenna Robinson left 4-year-old Heniyah Williams at the party on May 27th.

The next day, Robinson's apartment was empty. The birthday family decided to keep the girl.

Police got involved yesterday when the girl was reported missing when she wandered away. She was upset and asking for her mother.

Police found Robinson at her new home, and she told them she'd left at note at her old place with the new address.

Police said the note was not found. :sad2:



[Boy, 6, left behind after party; family realizes it next morning
By John Lantigua, Eliot Kleinberg

Palm Beach Post Staff Writers

Monday, June 05, 2006
Michael James Emanuel Jr. was the center of attention Saturday night, celebrating his sixth birthday at a Chuck E. Cheese's west of Boca Raton.

But by the end of the evening, the boy was accidentally left behind, and relatives failed to notice he was missing until the next morning, Palm Beach County sheriff's deputies said. His mother blamed a communications mix-up.

A hearing is set for today at the Broward County office of the Florida Department of Children and Families to determine whether Lacqetta Monroe, 23, of Pompano Beach, the boy's mother, should be charged with a crime. Sheriff's investigator Robert Falbe said Sunday he did not expect that to happen. He also said Monroe had no previous record with the DCF for child neglect.

Monroe could not be reached for comment. Michael's grandmother, Valerie Monroe, declined to comment.

About a dozen children and about a half-dozen adults gathered with Michael on Saturday at the Chuck E. Cheese's at State Road 7 and Glades Road, Falbe said.

About 8 p.m., as the party was wrapping up, the children piled into three vehicles and the adults stood talking in the parking lot for about a half-hour. One adult relative later told deputies he was sure he had seen Michael in his mother's van, but as the adults chatted, the boy apparently got out and returned to the restaurant's play area, Falbe said.

When Lacqetta Monroe got to the Deerfield Beach home of her mother, she unloaded some children and took some older ones to a skating rink. She said later she believed Michael had been among those she'd dropped off and had assumed he would spend the night with his grandmother.

Restaurant employees realized about 10 p.m. Saturday that the boy was alone and called deputies and the DCF, Falbe said. The employees told authorities Michael knew his name and age but not his telephone number or his mother's name. The DCF kept the boy in a shelter overnight.

On Sunday morning, it became clear to Michael's relatives that he was not with any of the adults, Falbe said. Meanwhile, he said, investigators had checked birth records, found the boy's name and his mother's name and made contact.

Michael had been in a potentially "very dangerous" situation, Falbe said.

"State Road 7 is a very busy thoroughfare," he said. "If he had wandered that way, it might have turned out badly, or he might have gotten abducted."
 
I could never leave one of my kids.I would have at least said good bye and behave if I was leaving them with someone else. That is sad :sad2:
 
Wouldn't Chuck E. Cheese have any record of phone numbers when the party was booked? :confused3 Also- our CEC stamps everyone that comes in together with the same # or symbol and everyone has to leave at the same time to be accounted for.


The first story is just horrible-
 
I can't imagine just leaving my child at a birthday party and MOVING!!! What the heck is wrong with people?

I can understand the second instance, though I think I am too paranoid about making sure everyone straps my son into the carseat correctly for that to happen to me!
 

How about the parents who forget to remove their children from the car and the child dies from the heat? That happens all too often.

I think you are judging this by your standards (good parents). Unfortunately there are some hideous parents out there who care more about their next drink, drug dose, sex partner, etc, etc. than they do their children's welfare. It is tragic.
 
When I think of all the people out there who would be incredible parents, who can't conceive, then I think of this chick leaving her 4-year-old at a party and MOVING...things just don't make sense. :sad2: :guilty:
 
I just got finished reading the first story in my local paper and couldn't believe it. Sure, she moved to a new place...but didn't tell anyone she was moving...and left a note on the door with her new address. Yeah right.

The second one is also unbelievable. Even if my kids were going with my Mom I'd be saying by to them when they got dropped off. I sometimes wonder where peoples brains are.
 
TallyLassie said:
She said later she believed Michael had been among those she'd dropped off and had assumed he would spend the night with his grandmother.


Wouldn't you, at the very least, kiss the boy and tell him goodnight? A special whisper and hug "Happy Birthday, Sweetie--What a wonderful party you had!", perhaps? :confused3

For crying out loud, he just turned six and you just "assume" he is sleeping at the grandmother's house?

The first woman should be thrown in jail and never exposed to her child again.

People are plain crazy.
 
alliecats said:
When I think of all the people out there who would be incredible parents, who can't conceive, then I think of this chick leaving her 4-year-old at a party and MOVING...things just don't make sense. :sad2: :guilty:


So, so true! When DS was four he was invited to a birthday party of a little girl that I always had felt sorry for. Always in dirty clothes, no shoes half the time even in cold weather etc. I felt bad not letting Ds go but, didn't feel comfortable. I thought that not many people would let their kids go and felt sorry for the little girl..but, something wasn't right so I said No..DS cannot come....come to find out. The kids that went, all came home reeking of pot. Some had left earlier then others and the police were called. It turns out that the parents were busted DURING the party and they had pot all over the birthday cake table! OMG! DS had asthma terribly. Imagine if I had felt so bad I let him go.

Some parents just DO NOT think, nor care about thier kids the way a parent should do. This is a very, very sad story. Poor wee kids.
 
Our CEC won't let a child in without an adult, not even a return.

Makes me wonder if he even left CEC with the group.

So sad for these kids!
 
I don't know what is more disturbing with the 1st story, the fact that the mom abandoned the little girl, or that the birthday family decided to just keep her, instead of calling the police.

As for the second story, that totally could happen, especially with 12 kids, and an adult had seen him in the van. (Home Alone, anyone?). My mother left my 4 year old brother at the house years age, she drove about 5 miles before she realized he wasn't in the car. From that day on, with 12 kids, she literally did a head count, and would ask "Who's missing?" before she left the driveway.

But, what I don't understand with the 2nd story is why it took until the next morning? Even if she dropped some kids off at the house after 8PM, and took the rest to the skate rink, she could of assumed the other kids were in bed when they got home. But she does not peek in on her kids before she goes to bed, especially if she wasn't home when they went to bed?
 
The little boy is being placed with a relative. I thought I read once, it was actually 2 days before they realized, but can't find the article. The mother is still under investigation.

I know I've "blanked out" so to speak with my child in the car. Instead of dropping him off at my sisters on the way to work, I got all the way to work, before I realized he was in the back seat (he was sleeping). I noticed as soon as I pulled in.
 
the Syracuse case: it gets better :rolleyes: . Local news is reporting the mom failed to show up in court today, so there is a warrant for her arrest - big surprise!!!! sad.
 
As much as I hate reading these types of stories, I'll take them 100 times out of 100 times to stories such as Andrea Yates, Deanna Laney, or Dena Schlosser. Too bad these mothers didn't do the same.
 
from what I heard, the mom of the little boy thought he was at grandma's and would spend the night there with the other kids she'd dropped off. The grandmother assumed he was with his mother. They didn't realize he was missing until they spoke to each other the next day.
 


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