Okay, I have stayed out of this discussion, but this made me LOL!! Really? She would only be demonstrating common sense if she agreed with you. Anything else is just self-serving nonsense. Then later you state that claiming common sense for one's side is ridiculous. Oh wait... that's right. It is only ridiculous if it isn't your side. Good stuff.
Since I'm posting, I guess I'll put my thoughts out there as well. Let me begin by saying that airport security is part of my family's daily life. I have stated before that we are an airline family. My dh is a commercial pilot for a major "legacy" carrier. I am a former f/a. We knew and had worked with quite a few of the crew members killed in the 9/11 attacks. One of the f/as was even in my initial training class. I share this only to show that this is not something I take lightly, and that it does impact our daily lives.
I realize we all give up a certain measure of our freedom in the name of safety. I have long ago given up my right to walk through a park alone at night, for example. I have also given up a certain measure of my right to privacy as well for both safety and convienence. We all have. What each person needs to ask is how much are you willing to give up. I think many have drawn the line here. Our choice is to be given a virtual strip search and be subjected to radiation penetrating our skin or be touched in places we have always considered private and off limits to strangers. Even then, we do not have a choice. You really have to be okay with both. TSA could funnel you into a line for either. If you refuse, you are then required to go through the additional screening.
Also, does all this make us any safer? Many people feel it does not. All of these procedures are in place because of the 9/11 attacks and then the shoe bomber and later the underwear bomber. Only the underwear bomber MAY have been stopped by these measures. Although, even in that instance, officials refused to say that it was even a possibility that this would've stopped him. What we do know about all these attackers is that they ALL raised red flags with the kind of ticket they bought and the manner in which they paid for them, and these flags were not investigated further. Shoot. The underwear bomber didn't even have a passport. Perhaps, instead of adding more procedures that take away one's rights and privacy but provide no real security, we should concentrate on the procedures that are already in place and follow through on those red flags. That would have done more to stop those attacks than these procedures we are talking about here.
So, I ask..... in this country, where we take great pride in our freedoms, how much are you willing to give up in the name of safety? Would you allow a TSA agent to put their hands inside your clothing and feel you? (Many teen girls, and boys too, wear very low-waisted jeans and shorts. Would you be okay if a TSA agent ran their hands along the inside of a person's waistband? My dh has seen agents do this.) We know people smuggle drugs inside their person. Is it out of the realm of possibility to think that a terrorist might do this as well? So, would you be okay subjecting yourself or your minor child to a more, shall we say, thorough search? Don't think it could happen here? Really? Did you ever think we would reach a point in this country where we would see average citizens, who have done absolutely nothing to warrant it, getting frisked so aggressively? Again, frisked without cause. Okay, I know some of you think that is too extreme. Let's look at something more common. Someone mentioned earlier colonoscopy bags. What about diapers, depends, and even a woman's maxi pad? These would be detected in both the body scanners AND the pat downs. The only way to ensure nothing is being hidden inside these items would be to have the person remove them and surrender them to the TSA agent while the TSA then provides the passenger with a replacement that we know is free of hidden chemicals, etc. Otherwise, this is all just for show. So, would you be willing to be escorted into the restroom by a TSA agent and surrender these things to them? Would you be okay with making your young dd have to do this? Maybe some of you are. I'm just curious where some of you would draw the line. At what point has it gone too far? Are you okay with Muslim women not having to receive pat downs or remove their head covering? Does their freedom to worship in the manner of their choosing override the safety of others? If so, why are you not willing to extend that same level of courtesy to a man or woman who says it is against their faith to allow someone other than a spouse or medical professional to touch them in certain places? I do know quite a few people who have been given gift certificates to a spa for a massage and have not used them because they felt it went against their beliefs, so those people are out there. All I'm asking is why should one faith be given special consideration over another? Is one more important or valid than another? Is one more likely to engage in terrorist activities than another?
Anyway, sorry for the long post. This whole thing just saddens me. I was going to take my girls to NYC next month to see the decorations and the Rockettes -- just some fun things I remember doing with my mom. However, now I am leaning against it. I don;t think my oldest dd would handle these screenings very well. She is not a victim of a sexual assalt or molestation. She is not "on the spectrum." She is just a painfully modest young girl. Even doctor's appointments are very uncomfortable for her. I was looking forward to the days we could travel and see the wonderful places this country and the world have to offer. (We are homeschoolers and not bound by a school schedule.) I will speak to my girls and see how they feel, but I'm sadden that we have reached this point in the good ol' US of A. I'm even more saddened by the number of people who are okay with it.