That's a wholly self-serving claim, without any merit. There is no easy way to tell who's safe and who's not without security measures employed. You may feel that characteristics of your life make you somehow "obviously" a good person, but that's not the case. Priests have been convicted of abusing children. Doctors have been convicted of harming people in the most horrific ways. No one gets a free pass just because they feel they deserve one.
Beyond that, any parent who refuses to go along with a terrorist trying to use their child as a mule for explosives, under a threat of "cooperate or the child dies right now", is an idiot.
They cannot believe your claim, because anyone who was a threat would make the same claim.
That's more self-serving nonsense.
If it was common sense, then we'd agree about it.
I'm sorry, but that's just funny. So if you agree with me, then it IS common sense, but if you don't, it is NOT common sense? Was that serious or an attempt at humor....or merely nonsense?

What you're advocating is
not common sense - it is your own personal preference, and indeed some people share it with you, but don't make the error many people in your position make, by assuming that what you believe and value is somehow generally superior to what everyone else believes and value. Reasonable people disagree, and claiming that your side is "common sense" is ridiculous.
So you claim, but going back to what I was saying earlier to another poster, the citizens of our country impose myriad obligations, objectives and expectations on the government and its agencies. Your simplistic analysis ignores most of them.
If you want things to change, then change the American people, first. Get them to act reasonably and rationally. Get them to stop placing double-standards on those that serve them. We've all collectively made the quagmire that we live in, and now we have to live with the consequences of our collective national attitude.