Thank you for the info. He is stubborn and always pays the price at the end of the day and into the next. Guess they have two months to try to convince him to use some help. So much walking at the parks. Again, thanks!
Maybe
@mamabunny will be around to share her how to
ECV atDisney world and her story on the first time she had to rent an ECV (or I think it was her) at Disney. I know I have heard a number of stories of people not sure if they should rent an ECV or not. Hopefully they will come on to share their stories and you can share with your family member.
Hey
@weewuvvdisney, my good friend
@gap2368 is talking about the first time I had to use an ECV at WDW. And what they are remembering is this story:
For years I had been limping along, bench to bench at Disney World, but over time, Disney was removing more and more benches… and all the while, I was still limping bench to bench, thinking (incorrectly, I might add) that my family wasn’t noticing that every bench we passed, I sat on. Finally, one day in EPCOT I had to give in, and rent a
scooter.
I did *not* want to. I boo-hoo’ed, I *ugly cried*. Not gonna lie, it was not pretty, and I was so deep into denial, I should have drowned. I thought I was going to ruin our vacation, that I was going to absolutely *die* from mortification and shame, right there in the middle of EPCOT.
And then a funny thing happened. I didn’t die. You can tell, because I am right here, right now.
Instead, because I was no longer limping along (literally and figuratively) our entire family was able to do more. Because I hurt less - in fact a LOT less - I wasn’t as cranky. I had less swelling, and I slept better that night because I had less pain and swelling. The next morning, I was like a whole different person.
My family was amazed.
What I learned that day is a very simple idea, and it’s this:
An ECV - or *any* thing we use to make our life easier - can be thought of as a tool. A tool is simply a device that makes a job easier, right?
I’ll give you an example. If you wear prescription glasses, that is a tool to see better.
If you wear a hearing aid, that is a tool to boost or supplement the ability to hear.
If you use a calculator, that is a tool to do math.
If you use a garage door opener, that is a tool to open a door for you.
It’s really that simple.
There are SO many people who rent
ECVs only at WDW - in their "regular" lives, they never need one or use one. And there are many, many folks who haver “hidden” disabilities that use ECVs as well.
Anyone who judges them does so from a place of fear and ignorance. Using an ECV to maximize your vacation at WDW is no different than using a pair of glasses to see, or a calculator to do math. It is a tool to accomplish a goal or task. Nothing more.
And if someone does give him the stink-eye? So what? Who cares? The chances of ever running into that person again at Disney World (or anywhere outside of Disney World) is slim to none, and Slim just left town.
Tell him Mamabunny said get on that thing, and ride. Wave to all the pretty girls, and blow kisses like the handsome prince we all know he is. Have fun at Disney World; life is too short to be in pain when you don’t have to be.
PS: you have my full permission to show this to him. And if he has any questions at all, I will be glad to answer them. Happy New Year!