travel softball ?

bsblady01

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I have a question for you guys does anyone here have girls or boys that do travel baseball /softball. My ten year old was asked to play on a travel softball team this year. My daughter has been playing since she was five she even did winter ball this year.

Do you guys have any tips and the cost that will be involved in this. We have two other kids that play but they are to young for a travel team they are seven and five and are just getting into baseball and softball.

I played softball from the time I was five right on through college but I was not on a travel team. So this is all new for our family
 
My DD played travel softball for years. This Fall she left her 18U Showcase Team because she decided not to play in college, and she wanted to focus on her 11th grade academics (super hard this year). She is still playing on her high school team. When she was younger, her travel teams played in more local tournaments. We paid dues to the team for uniforms and tournament fees. Fundraisers offset some of this cost. Since most tournaments were local we didn't have many travel or hotel costs. It was just a HUGE time commitment - 2 and 3 day tournaments every other weekend during the Spring, Summer and Fall, indoor workouts during the winter. As she got older, her teams traveled out of state more often. This past summer we paid for hotels for 5 different 3-4 day tournaments. It gets very pricey.

Check the tournament schedule for the team your DD has been invited to join so you can estimate travel/hotel costs. Also get an estimate for dues, uniforms, tournament fees, and be sure to include any new equipment you are responsible for providing. Find out if you have to pay extra for the matching helmets and bat bags or if they are part of the uniform fee. Cleats, gloves and $300 bats add up too!
 
I'm not a fan of any travel team. My son was offered a spot on a Travel Team in 2000. The estimated cost was $7,500 per child. The team did well, and their final out of pocket ended up being about $12,000
 
Travel teams are where you get noticed along with showcases. Really good travel clubs will cost you a pretty penny but you are also traveling all over the south. I'm in the Midwest and the top teams will go south due to better teams being down there. An average travel softball team around me will run $1000 for the summer not including hotels and food. Most only travel far away 2-3 times a summer. Top teams will run $2500 plus and you won't be home on the weekends from June through the first of August and tournaments start on Wednesday or Thursday and last til Sunday. My sons last year playing, we slept in our home 25 nights out of 75 nights. I would do it again but it was getting tough towards the end. Check their schedule if they have it formed, you can then base what kind of money you will be spending. Great experience if you get on the right team, can be bad if it's wrong. Also depends on what kind of parent you are and how you've raised your child.
 

The team that my daughter would play on goes as far a myrtle beach . they also go to pa. I want my daughter to do this but I don't want this to take over her life and take time away from my two younger kids. I have looked at a few websites but there is no cost breakdown that I can find
 
My twin DDs (almost 17) have been playing travel ball since 12U (did a mild version for both 10U years as well). It depends what area you are in...cost wise. And if the team pays the coaches. And how intense the team is. Mine started at about $300/year in fees (10U) and this year is $1700 (not counting gear and hotels). Past few years we pay for travel expenses for coaches and do showcases which cost more than regular tourneys. And we have 17 on the team to spread the cost amongst ($1700 per player). Super competitive teams, like some in California, might pay more than travel expenses for their coaches (pay them to coach).

We do fundraising and can bring in thousands of dollars if we do some good stuff and have good participation (our team likes to do Coach purse bingos). That profit can get divided equally among teammates (we used to be this way when DDs were younger)...or it can be divided by how much you participate in the fundraiser (this is what our team's been doing the past 2 years...you only get credit for each bingo ticket you sell and if you have 1 parent work the bingo). The money raised gets applied as a credit to your kid's fees.

Hotels and travel. We started off going to local tourneys, most w/in an hour's drive but then a couple a year were about 2-3 hours away. Maybe a Nationals at the beach. The 10U years we did like 3-4 per summer and 1-2 in the fall. Then, at 12U, we were doing every weekend in the summer and about 4 in the fall. Once they get to HS and play HS ball they stop travel team stuff from March through early June. So we do every weekend from June 11th-ish through July. Nationals are usually the end of July. August is try-outs. And practice beginning end of August and fall tourneys begin in Sept and can go through Nov (if you are north and play local, then it usually ends when it's really cold). Then they do winter workouts.

Now mine are doing showcases (no seeding and championship play...play for college coaches to watch) and they go down to play in FL in late fall or winter. Nationals can be in Oregon or California or some such. So, airfare is added to expenses. And showcases make you use them to book hotels and might not always be the best deal that you'd pick.

Equipment...bats, helmets, gloves, batbags and cleats can be pricey. They go through them like crazy too. If a catcher that's even more gear. Pitchers may wear facemasks. There's mouth guards and sliders and this and that. Coolers, chairs for mom and dad, canopies and things to keep cool like Frogg Toggs or little fans. Then spirit wear like hoodies or jackets and sweatpants. UnderArmour for the cold. Also extra coaches like pitching coaches or conditioning or a hitting coach...all adds up.

Unsolicited advice- Don't do it thinking your DD will get a great scholarship that will save you big bucks. It's not likely because the scholarship money is very low. Very very few get full rides (DI and only the best players), one in a million. Usually, we are finding for DII, you might get like $3K. Not worth all the expense you put in playing travel ball (as you will spend way more than $12K). But do it for team sportsmanship, discipline, the love of softball, an activity for your DD to do that keeps her busy and out of trouble (especially important from about 14 on), good friendships, fitness, confidence building...
 
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I don't know nothing about that, but thinking back to that age, that just sounds like sooo much fun
 
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My twin DDs (almost 17) have been playing travel ball since 12U (did a mild version for both 10U years as well). It depends what area you are in...cost wise. And if the team pays the coaches. And how intense the team is. Mine started at about $300/year in fees (10U) and this year is $1700 (not counting gear and hotels). Past few years we pay for travel expenses for coaches and do showcases which cost more than regular tourneys. And we have 17 on the team to spread the cost amongst ($1700 per player). Super competitive teams, like some in California, might pay more than travel expenses for their coaches (pay them to coach).

We do fundraising and can bring in thousands of dollars if we do some good stuff and have good participation (our team likes to do Coach purse bingos). That profit can get divided equally among teammates (we used to be this way when DDs were younger)...or it can be divided by how much you participate in the fundraiser (this is what our team's been doing the past 2 years...you only get credit for each bingo ticket you sell and if you have 1 parent work the bingo). The money raised gets applied as a credit to your kid's fees.

Hotels and travel. We started off going to local tourneys, most w/in an hour's drive but then a couple a year were about 2-3 hours away. Maybe a Nationals at the beach. The 10U years we did like 3-4 per summer and 1-2 in the fall. Then, at 12U, we were doing every weekend in the summer and about 4 in the fall. Once they get to HS and play HS ball they stop travel team stuff from March through early June. So we do every weekend from June 11th-ish through July. Nationals are usually the end of July. August is try-outs. And practice beginning end of August and fall tourneys begin in Sept and can go through Nov (if you are north and play local, then it usually ends when it's really cold). Then they do winter workouts.

Now mine are doing showcases (no seeding and championship play...play for college coaches to watch) and they go down to play in FL in late fall or winter. Nationals can be in Oregon or California or some such. So, airfare is added to expenses. And showcases make you use them to book hotels and might not always be the best deal that you'd pick.

Equipment...bats, helmets, gloves, batbags and cleats can be pricey. They go through them like crazy too. If a catcher that's even more gear. Pitchers may wear facemasks. There's mouth guards and sliders and this and that. Coolers, chairs for mom and dad, canopies and things to keep cool like Frogg Toggs or little fans. Then spirit wear like hoodies or jackets and sweatpants. UnderArmour for the cold. Also extra coaches like pitching coaches or conditioning or a hitting coach...all adds up.

Unsolicited advice- Don't do it thinking your DD will get a great scholarship that will save you big bucks. It's not likely because the scholarship money is very low. Very very few get full rides (DI and only the best players), one in a million. Usually, we are finding for DII, you might get like $3K. Not worth all the expense you put in playing travel ball (as you will spend way more than $12K). But do it for team sportsmanship, discipline, the love of softball, an activity for your DD to do that keeps her busy and out of trouble (especially important from about 14 on), good friendships, fitness, confidence building...
thanks for the tips
 
Mine started at about $300/year in fees (10U) and this year is $1700 (not counting gear and hotels). Past few years we pay for travel expenses for coaches and do showcases which cost more than regular tourneys. And we have 17 on the team to spread the cost amongst ($1700 per player). Super competitive teams, like some in California, might pay more than travel expenses for their coaches (pay them to coach)....

Yeah, the $7,500 to $12,000 I quoted included hotel, air fare and food. Coaches paid their own way and were volunteers. These were hard core coaches dissatisfied with the Little League, Cal Ripkin and American Legion programs so they went with USSSA.
 
Trying to add up our costs for a year (maybe I shouldn't do this :scared:). Doing JUST my pitcher DD:
1700- fees (whole year)
800- gear (probably more)
3000- hotels (about)
600- airfare for her and 1 parent (we only fly once a year, other times we drive, even to OK and TN)
1500- pitching coach (estimating)
???? - food and gas

So well over $7600. Yep, shouldn't have added it up. :faint:
 
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Traveling softball was my life for my daughter for 12 years. Honestly, I didn't know what to do after she graduated high school : )

We paid $500 plus any hotel and traveling costs. You can see where they have played in the past. We had a lot of local tournaments and maybe traveled where a motel/hotel was needed once a month. Depending on your prents, it is possible to cut some costs. I couldn't make a tournament, a parent/child took my daughter and one time we took their daughter. We took breakfast stuff if the hotel didn't provide it and took lunch stuff. The organizers got smart and quit allowing food so we just found a grassy area outside with the team and had a picnic and the girls fell asleep.

Stay away from the photos, they are hard to not buy. We did buy a tee shirt from the major tournaments which was good as her high school coach did quilts for all the senior girls from their tournament shirts. My daughter learned so much more from the traveling team then she ever did from school or local Bobbysox/Little League type softball. As someone said earlier, I wouldn't make the decision if you think it will pay for college. I will say however, much harder to get onto a college softball team if you don't play traveling. My daughter had no desire to play in college (thanks to her new high school coach) but other parents were out there with video cameras to send to the college coaches.

If I was stilling doing this, my first investment would be that new fold up wagon. Heck, I wanted one of those old lady basket things with the wheels on it. 1 chair and a little ice chest doesn't sound like much but it accumulates somehow especially if you have other kids. If you do, small chocolate bars in tupperware in the ice chest works wonders (sandwiches in Tupperware also so they don't get mushy). She had the gallon size jug for ice water and froze water bottles, kept them in the ice chest. Keep a little medical container with bandaids, ace bandage, white adhesive tape, Tylenol, moleskin. The coach had ran out of adhesive tape and I had to go running around the new town looking for some after my daughter got hit by a pitch on her wrist bone. (cracked it but she still wanted to play).

MY OVERALL ADVICE & THIS IS IN CAPS...GET A CHAIR AND SIT IT DOWN THE FIELD AWAY FROM THE OTHER PARENTS. Parents had no problem talking badly about a player in front of their parent orwere gossiping. It didn't matter if it was CA or OK, it was the same. When we were in OK, we played in OKC, Broken Arrow, Joplin, Aurora CO. We went to Nationals in Detroit and then again in Alabama (the town where Helen Keller is from or close to..forgot the name now). It seemed to me, the better player gets more gossip. I had parents come up to me and tell me that they couldn't believe my daughter was named one of the top 25 athletes in the state of OK and then when she was named to the USSSA Hall of Fame as a shortstop/defensive during the Nationals in Alabama, those same few parents said "really, her?". It was the parents who believe their children are extremely gifted in the sport and are not happy for others. 80% of others were happy but there will always be the few and they have no filter on their mouths. So, I just sit down the field by myself. I left the game less stressed.

Don't forget about the entrance fees for parents and kids in the tournaments. Whenever we came home to CA for visits, I went to the Nike outlet store for her cleats. Much cheaper. She is 30 now and still wearing her sliders under her shorts and the leg slider. I can't believe they haven't fallen apart by now. She plays adult slow pitch and indoor softball with coworkers. Funny thing is, she is running into her old teammates from her 6-12 year old CA team playing in the adult leagues now that we are back in CA.
 
MY OVERALL ADVICE & THIS IS IN CAPS...GET A CHAIR AND SIT IT DOWN THE FIELD AWAY FROM THE OTHER PARENTS. Parents had no problem talking badly about a player in front of their parent orwere gossiping. It didn't matter if it was CA or OK, it was the same. When we were in OK, we played in OKC, Broken Arrow, Joplin, Aurora CO. We went to Nationals in Detroit and then again in Alabama (the town where Helen Keller is from or close to..forgot the name now). It seemed to me, the better player gets more gossip. I had parents come up to me and tell me that they couldn't believe my daughter was named one of the top 25 athletes in the state of OK and then when she was named to the USSSA Hall of Fame as a shortstop/defensive during the Nationals in Alabama, those same few parents said "really, her?". It was the parents who believe their children are extremely gifted in the sport and are not happy for others. 80% of others were happy but there will always be the few and they have no filter on their mouths. So, I just sit down the field by myself. I left the game less stressed.
This. Great advice. We started doing this 3 years ago. You know the show Dance Moms...well softball can be very similar (but dads involved too). We sit down the 1st or 3rd baseline near the outfield. Just to be away from the drama and stay out of our DDs' hair. Plus it's hard not to gasp when an error is made and sitting far from the action keeps players from hearing the gasps.
 
I thought @lovin'fl summed it up great. My DD played travel ball for 2-3 years. There are definite benefits and some downside.

Benefits
Better coaching (most of the time)
Better competition
Better teammates (better skilled, "want" to participate, etc)
See different areas

Cons
Cost (will vary by area and by team)
Added time commitment (more practices, tournaments further away)
Expectation the team will be the priority

Find out more about the team you want to play with. How many tournaments do they go to? How far away? How much do you need to pay to join the team? How many practices? Where are they? What's the uniform cost? Do you need to purchase a team helmet? Bat bag? Are there fundraisers? Other team requirements? Do you need a personal trainer (pitching, catching, hitting, etc)? Does the team recommend a certain one? How much playing time will your DD get?

I agree with the folding wagon or at least a cooler with wheels.
 
I want my daughter to do this but I don't want this to take over her life and take time away from my two younger kids. I have looked at a few websites but there is no cost breakdown that I can find

A travel sport requires lots of time and $ for practices, travel and tournaments. We're soccer parents. But often Dh has gone one direction with a kid or 2 and I've gone another for the weekend and evenings. It will be a huge time commitment and affect the whole family. But if you and Dh are supportive and work together it can be a very good experience for your dd. It can help to have grandparents involved or make a friend who can help with driving multiple kids to practices or other activities, etc.

I do say I wish we would have had more time for spontaneous weekend visits to the zoo, etc. when my kids were little that we didn't do because of soccer, but the kids remind me they did get to do what they wanted--they played soccer.
 
The team that my daughter would play on goes as far a myrtle beach . they also go to pa. I want my daughter to do this but I don't want this to take over her life and take time away from my two younger kids. I have looked at a few websites but there is no cost breakdown that I can find


it will take over her life and it will take time away from the two younger kids. so there are pros and cons for each. you or your husband will miss some of your younger ones games. that is just a fact of life. but as kids grow older, these are choices we have to make.
 














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