Luvchefmic
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Seriously? You're comparing vials of crack to copying videos for your own personal use? Really. Do you always have to have the last word in any discussion?
just something I found that I thought I would share: interesting

Identifying the emotional vampires
Control
This person dictates and dominates you; he or she is rigid, rarely fun or spontaneous, often telling you what is best for you and how you should be living your life.
Criticizer
This person is highly critical, condemnatory and judgmental. He puts others down often and easily points out your flaws.
Drama Queen
This person needs to be center of attention 24 hours a day; he or she is great at getting attention and when he doesnt get it or his way, he creates drama and outbursts believing that the intense emotion is a healthy connection. This person can also be passive- aggressive: seeking your approval and charming while he has it, but aggressive and abusive when he doesnt get it.
Understanding the emotional vampires
All of the above behaviors stem from negative experiences and programming. In other words, the emotional vampires feel empty and are missing something and thus they turn to you to fill them up with: validation, recognition, attention, approval, love, acceptance, reassurance, personal power, etc. No matter how confident and assertive they may appear, underneath, they often suffer from self-hatred, low self-esteem, feelings of inadequacy, guilt, shame and so forth.