sarah_n_brian2006
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We were married on August 4th of this year, but before I tell you about it, there is some background I must tell you. My DH and I run his DM's roof cleaning business (because she knows nothing about it and only owns it due to his brother in law (long story).) The summer's in Florida are very slow (outside of Orlando) and can be difficult to manage. This summer was the worst. The hurricane's of '04 & '05 had many roof's damaged and/or replaced, so everyone is hesitant to spend any money maintaining their roofs. Not to mention Homeowner's Assosication's and cities were not citing people for it because of all the damage. Some money has been very tight in the business. DMIL never stopped to see how tight the money was until the week before our special weekend. In fact in June when I set up the Site Visit with my SM, Joe, I told her about it and she was very excited!
Day 1 - Wednedsday, August 2nd
DH asked DMIL if she wanted to go to the courthouse with us and gave her our plans for the weekend. She was all excited! She told every patient in the office (DFIL is an eye surgeon, and we were in the process of moving my office in the conference room in his office). That night after a long day of work, she had us painting (off the clock) the old office and bay we were moving out of. She calls Brian up and tells him that we could go this weekend, there was too much work for us to do to pull the business out of the hole. He told her that we were going whether she liked it or not that every weekend we work off the clocks and this weekend we would be in Orlando. She replied telling him that she would close the business. He said fine we'll stay. It was already within 5 days of our trip, so we couldn't cancel our reservation at the Yacht Club. Poor guy was stuck between me and his DM. Even for just stress reasons, we needed a vacay to rewind, but she didn't care. Great way to start a marriage huh!?
Day 2 - Thursday August 3rd
I told Brian to tell DMIL that we had to go away this weekend, blah blah blah. After about 4 hours of her fighting us on what we were going to do anyways, behind her back or not, she gave in. Oh yeah, we were fixing drywall until 11:30pm after working since 7:30am! In the dark! And she was complaining, we weren't.
Day 3 - Friday the BIG DAY August 4th
We worked all day as usually, but started 1 hour earlier so we could get off by 4. On my lunch break my DM took me to the Mall to get a dress to wear to the courthouse, because she didn'treally like the dress I was going to wear, but hey she bought me a new one, I wasnt going to complain. We got a pretty white dress with gold glitter and empire waist. Very pretty. Then I went back to work. DMIL came in to work later to wish us good luck, much to my surprise. After work it was time!!
Brian and I went home to get ready, the courthouse closed at 5 and we were 10 minutes away. But he had been working outside in the heat all day with chlorine, so he smelled. Once we were fresh and ready to go, we left. We parked 2 blocks away, the closest we could find in a hurry, and ran. As we were running, he says "Im not going to cry, your family might think so because my nose is congested, and Ill be sniffling, but I won't cry". Famous last words Finally we get to the 3rd floor, to be greeted by my dad. He said "What your not wearing that beautiful wedding dress I bought you?" He was joking so I just laughed it off. We made it just in time 4:58pm. We walked into the room, It was a normal courthouse office room. A big counter in the front, and a bunch of desks in the back. A lady had us swear in, I thought we would be doing our ceremony there and was alittle disappointed. Then she pointed to a door to our right and told us to wait in there.
As we walked in, I found it plain but elegant. I was expecting Vegas style cheesyness. The few pieces of decor and furniture, were very nice and pretty. About 5 minutes later, she walkes in to begin our ceremony. (I wish I had pictures to post, my DM hasnt developed hers, and I only have it on video). The ceremony begins, and he has that Im going to cry look on his face. He says his vows first, and crys!!!!! Which made me laugh, Famous last words!The ceremony went by so fast I really do not remember it. After the ceremony, my dad went by Russo's (a great sub shop) to get everyone sandwiches while we walked back to my car. Oh yeah, we hadn't packed yet!! My DM gives us these white JUST MARRIED flags from Party City. They're made of plastic. DONT USE THEM. They came apart going 35 mph, and marked up me '05 RED Dodge Neon pretty bad.
We rushed home, changed clothes and started packing. Its a 3 hour drive to WDW from my house, and we had dinner planned for 9:45pm at the Castle. It was 5:30pm when my dad got back with the subs, we scarfed them down and ran to WDW.
To be continued - The Hectic Disneymoon!!!!
Day 1 - Wednedsday, August 2nd
DH asked DMIL if she wanted to go to the courthouse with us and gave her our plans for the weekend. She was all excited! She told every patient in the office (DFIL is an eye surgeon, and we were in the process of moving my office in the conference room in his office). That night after a long day of work, she had us painting (off the clock) the old office and bay we were moving out of. She calls Brian up and tells him that we could go this weekend, there was too much work for us to do to pull the business out of the hole. He told her that we were going whether she liked it or not that every weekend we work off the clocks and this weekend we would be in Orlando. She replied telling him that she would close the business. He said fine we'll stay. It was already within 5 days of our trip, so we couldn't cancel our reservation at the Yacht Club. Poor guy was stuck between me and his DM. Even for just stress reasons, we needed a vacay to rewind, but she didn't care. Great way to start a marriage huh!?
Day 2 - Thursday August 3rd
I told Brian to tell DMIL that we had to go away this weekend, blah blah blah. After about 4 hours of her fighting us on what we were going to do anyways, behind her back or not, she gave in. Oh yeah, we were fixing drywall until 11:30pm after working since 7:30am! In the dark! And she was complaining, we weren't.
Day 3 - Friday the BIG DAY August 4th
We worked all day as usually, but started 1 hour earlier so we could get off by 4. On my lunch break my DM took me to the Mall to get a dress to wear to the courthouse, because she didn'treally like the dress I was going to wear, but hey she bought me a new one, I wasnt going to complain. We got a pretty white dress with gold glitter and empire waist. Very pretty. Then I went back to work. DMIL came in to work later to wish us good luck, much to my surprise. After work it was time!!
Brian and I went home to get ready, the courthouse closed at 5 and we were 10 minutes away. But he had been working outside in the heat all day with chlorine, so he smelled. Once we were fresh and ready to go, we left. We parked 2 blocks away, the closest we could find in a hurry, and ran. As we were running, he says "Im not going to cry, your family might think so because my nose is congested, and Ill be sniffling, but I won't cry". Famous last words Finally we get to the 3rd floor, to be greeted by my dad. He said "What your not wearing that beautiful wedding dress I bought you?" He was joking so I just laughed it off. We made it just in time 4:58pm. We walked into the room, It was a normal courthouse office room. A big counter in the front, and a bunch of desks in the back. A lady had us swear in, I thought we would be doing our ceremony there and was alittle disappointed. Then she pointed to a door to our right and told us to wait in there.
As we walked in, I found it plain but elegant. I was expecting Vegas style cheesyness. The few pieces of decor and furniture, were very nice and pretty. About 5 minutes later, she walkes in to begin our ceremony. (I wish I had pictures to post, my DM hasnt developed hers, and I only have it on video). The ceremony begins, and he has that Im going to cry look on his face. He says his vows first, and crys!!!!! Which made me laugh, Famous last words!The ceremony went by so fast I really do not remember it. After the ceremony, my dad went by Russo's (a great sub shop) to get everyone sandwiches while we walked back to my car. Oh yeah, we hadn't packed yet!! My DM gives us these white JUST MARRIED flags from Party City. They're made of plastic. DONT USE THEM. They came apart going 35 mph, and marked up me '05 RED Dodge Neon pretty bad.
We rushed home, changed clothes and started packing. Its a 3 hour drive to WDW from my house, and we had dinner planned for 9:45pm at the Castle. It was 5:30pm when my dad got back with the subs, we scarfed them down and ran to WDW.
To be continued - The Hectic Disneymoon!!!!