We will soon be in the market to replace my husbands Santa Fe. We are interested in something that can tow a pop-up or ultra lite travel trailer. My husband has been looking at the Dodge Dakota line. Anyone with experience towing with one of these? We will need to get the 4-door quad cab, with a v-8 and a towing package.
I don't have a Dakota, I have the bigger Ram with V8 and towing package. From what I hear, though, the Dakota is a towing machine when configured properly. Just try not to overwhelm the size of the truck with too large of a trailer. Travel Trailers seem to get lighter every year. So, you could potentially find a 30 foot TT that fits within the weight requirements of the Dakota. But keep in mind the Dakota is considered a mid-sized truck and, depending on your speed and road conditions, you may find yourself feeling like the trailer is driving you vs. the other way around if you get a long one.
I hate to stereotype dealers because there are some that will help you "do the right thing". But keep in mind, the reality is that the car dealer wants to sell you a vehicle even if it means pushing the limits of what you want to do with it. And the RV dealer wants to sell you the biggest, most expensive RV he thinks you will buy. Especially now, with gas prices as they are - keeping many potential truck and RV buyers off the lots.
RV dealers have a master towing guide that is, apparently, lacking detail on many tow vehicles. I've shopped for RV's twice now with 2 different trucks, and both times the dealers would go look at this guide and come back to me with the maximum weight for my TV based on, apparently, optimum configurations. With my old truck, they quoted me more weight than I could actually tow and now the same thing again with my new one.
As I suggested before, do your own due diligence on the weights. And, keep in mind, that those "sporty looking" big tires and wheels look cool but, most likely, will cost you when it comes to what you can pull.
If I could justify it, I'd go out and buy a heavy duty truck with a diesel engine and I wouldn't have to worry about towing most anything out there. But, since we typically only go RV'ing a few times a year, having a truck like that just isn't practical.
good luck!