Jackie, when you get to DHS, go straight to TSM... Get to rope drop early! We get there between 8 and 8:30. If you are in the front of the line or close to the front, go on the ride right away, then if you want, grab a FP when you get off. Or you can head straight to TOT and R&RC, maybe go on right away if the lines are not long or FP them.
With Epcot, go to Soarin first and get your FP either before you go on or just go on if the line is not long. If you get there for rope drop, you should be able to go on with no wait. Then head over to Test Track and either go on, or grab a FP. You really may not have to wait in long lines that early in the morning. We didn't have to 2 weeks ago, but then again, I do not know how the crowds are July.
In the MK, head to SM first... people run to that ride first for some reason. Then head over to Splash Mountain and grab a FP. You should be able to get on Pirates, and the HM right away. You may want to FP the Jungle Cruise, too. Oh and Peter Pan. You should be able to get on the Tea cups right away in the morning.
In the AK, head to EE first. After that, FP the Safari.
I really think you will be fine. Utilize EMH and get to the parks butt early.
I hope the parks are not that crowded for you and I hope I helped a little. OOh and for the parades, people were lining up like 2 hrs before the parade started. I was in my spot an hour and 15 mins before. OOh and for the fireworks, the CMs make a walk way in the middle of Main st... stand right next to that walk way in the middle of the st, and you will have a great view becuase nobody will be able to stand on the side of you if you are on the end.