Today DL reminded me to count my blessings (+ report)

WonkaKid

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So: I was at the rope this morning and I met a nice woman visiting from Fresno with her two young children, both adorable. We began to chat and she told me that her husband died in April. She spoke briefly about what a challenge it is to deal with that and to raise two young children on her own. I met up with them later and the daughter invited me and a friend to join them all on Pirates, which we did. Later in the day I encountered other people who deal with some serious life issues on a daily basis. All of this reminded me how important it is for me to count my blessings, and I have many. My biggest problem these days is dealing with a failed relationship with someone who I thought was absolutely amazing (and I told her that a few times). I’m reminded of her often and the whole thing still makes me sad and confused. But my problem is small - tiny, even - and eminently manageable when stacked up against the type and scale of troubles faced by the people I encountered today. I simply have to remember to remain mindful of that, which isn’t always easy. Anyway, a valuable lesson was reaffirmed for me today.

Now, having said that, on to the more mundane and obligatory part of my post ;-).

The crown at the rope was moderate-to-heavy this morning. I was neck-and-neck with a kid as we both headed for Peter Pan. But as we approached the drawbridge, he ran ahead of me. Fortunately, I saw that the PP entrance was at the end of the queue closest to the castle and, in his haste, he bolted past it. I stepped in and nabbed first place. However, he seemed like a nice kid and I heard him say to his parents, excitedly, “Wow, this is the first time I’ve ever been second for Peter Pan.” I decided to make his day and upgraded him to my first-place position. He and his parents seemed to appreciate it.

At around 9:45 we got in line for HM. The app and sign outside of the attraction both indicated a 25-minute wait. But once we got in line, I started my timer and stopped it as we stepped into the stretching room. It was a mere 12-minute wait :-).

Saw the new Harbour Galley seating area, which was nice and spacious (pic in the follow-up post below).

In recent weeks I’ve noticed an increase in people being escorted from the park. I saw two incidents last Sunday and another today, this one complete with the guests shaking her finger in the face of the security CMs. But I see them nearly every time I’m at the park these days. Not sure why. I guess there are more rules for guests to break? ;-).

Some pics from the park (and yes: I have park maps if anyone would like a pair :-)).
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I was the first through security this morning and this is what the structure esplanade looked like before others arrived,
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One of the things I've come to appreciate going solo is the different people I've come to meet and enjoy their company, though the good and bad.

Just wanted to chime in that no matter how small your problems may feel, if they're important to you , they are just as valid as those you encountered. It absolutely warms my heart reading your posts and realizing you and me and so very much the same when I often feel so distanced from everyone in the world. I can say without a doubt just having someone to talk to, I know that family had positive memories of you and will not be forgotten.
Thank you for sharing with us :)
 
One of the things I've come to appreciate going solo is the different people I've come to meet and enjoy their company, though the good and bad.
Definitely. I've met dozens of great people at the park over the years.

Just wanted to chime in that no matter how small your problems may feel, if they're important to you , they are just as valid as those you encountered. It absolutely warms my heart reading your posts and realizing you and me and so very much the same when I often feel so distanced from everyone in the world. I can say without a doubt just having someone to talk to, I know that family had positive memories of you and will not be forgotten.
Thank you for sharing with us :)
Thank you very much for saying so. Sure, I acknowledge that my problems -- small as they seem/feel -- are still problems. But mine will be resolved once I meet someone new... although this woman was one in a million. So I guess I just have to meet a million more and I'll be in good shape ;-). Some of the people I encountered today will never be whole again, I suspect. Yes, my issue will leave a scar but I'll take that over something far more disfiguring :-). It would help immensely if she were to reach out and we were to have some level of closure but that doesn't seem likely. She still texts me every few months although I'm not sure why and it only deepens my confusion. If she does it again, I'll have a serious make-or-break conversation with her. :-).
 

Definitely. I've met dozens of great people at the park over the years.


Thank you very much for saying so. Sure, I acknowledge that my problems -- small as they seem/feel -- are still problems. But mine will be resolved once I meet someone new... although this woman was one in a million. So I guess I just have to meet a million more and I'll be in good shape ;-). Some of the people I encountered today will never be whole again, I suspect. Yes, my issue will leave a scar but I'll take that over something far more disfiguring :-). It would help immensely if she were to reach out and we were to have some level of closure but that doesn't seem likely. She still texts me every few months although I'm not sure why and it only deepens my confusion. If she does it again, I'll have a serious make-or-break conversation with her. :-).

Coming from someone who has been broken over and over emotionally and mentally from bad relationships, family and otherwise I understand all too well. Just remember that you have value and worth even if they failed to see it.
If ever our paths cross in the parks I hope I can offer you a dolewhip, churro or whatever your favorite Disney treat is and make a new friend :)
 
Coming from someone who has been broken over and over emotionally and mentally from bad relationships, family and otherwise I understand all too well. Just remember that you have value and worth even if they failed to see it.
Thank you! Sometimes it’s easy to forget that amidst all of this isolation and related challenges. I hope to look back on this episode in my life as a difficult but character-building experience.

If ever our paths cross in the parks I hope I can offer you a dolewhip, churro or whatever your favorite Disney treat is and make a new friend :)
Sounds good! I’ll take a tea, please :-). I’ve been off of refined sugar, deep-fried foods and the like for many years. I appreciate the offer.
 
Wonderful pictures, as always! Your trip posts are my 'little trips to the Parks' as I'm not local and only get to DL every other year or so.

People, even 'strangers', come into our lives for a reason. Chance encounters can give us moments of personal clarity and lessons in gratitude. "Forget not to show love unto strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares."

As far as your former lady friend, there are far more fish in the sea than ever came out of it. Some day your princess will come, probably when and where you least expect it.
 
You have an amazing giving spirit about you which shows up through your posts…always offering maps, giving kids your spot in line, many kindnesses I’m sure that go unmentioned. You will find the right person one of these day, one who truly will appreciate and love you for the wonderful gentle soul you are.

And a special thank you for posting all the photos of the treats, even tho you’re off sugar! I love to look at them!
 
You have an amazing giving spirit about you which shows up through your posts…always offering maps, giving kids your spot in line, many kindnesses I’m sure that go unmentioned. You will find the right person one of these day, one who truly will appreciate and love you for the wonderful gentle soul you are.
Thank you for your kind words! It’s nice to hear those sorts of things. I imagine that I will find someone one day. I meet new people all the time (or at least did before the pandemic). In short, I don’t have trouble meeting people. It’s just hard to find someone with whom I’m truly compatible; someone to whom I feel a deep connection. The last woman was the one I mentioned above. She said a lot of things to me that made me believe that she felt the same. I don’t understand why people do things like that and likely never will.

And a special thank you for posting all the photos of the treats, even tho you’re off sugar! I love to look at them!
You’re welcome! I get joy merely out of looking at the treats. I have no desire or temptation to eat any of them. Hopefully I’ll be able to get some pics of the hand-rolled candy canes this year but I doubt that they’ll do them, for obvious reasons.

Thanks again!
 
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Thank you for sharing your day in the park, both with pictures and stories. I hope you continue to find magical moments inside and outside Disneyland this holiday season.

(Your Eeyore pic made my day 😊)
 


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