OK, I'll apologize now, this is going to be long.

I just want to share with people who know what its like, what has been happening with my DD8.
My sweetie has always been the most cheerful, creative, bubbly thing in the world. But slowly, she started fading right before my eyes. She stopped doing ANYTHING and packing on weight. But 1st came the "stopped doing anything". You know, it was so nebulous, I wasn't sure if I was imagining things or it was just "growing up" or what. But finally other people started asking what was wrong with her. Like her dance teacher who has had her since she was 2. This was last spring - the weight gained happened over the summer. Anyway, her birthday was in Oct. and before we went, I sent the dr a two page letter in which I outlined the fact and reasons that I was afraid she was suffering from depression. She's on alot of asthma meds too, and had started a new one in the spring,so I was angling for that to be a side effect and we could just take her off it and try something else.
So, the DH and I both went so I could go out and talk privately to the dr. He had the NERVE to say, "well, its clearly because she is overweight. Someone is teasing her about being heavy. And it is bumming her out. Not enough to treat or anything." I told him NO! She stopped doing anything first, then gained. He said "no, no, I'm sure she'll start crying some day and spill it all out. Find a time the Y isn't busy, so she won't be embarrassed by being in her suit and swim laps with her." I told him that was SOOOO not the issue. My goodness, she runs around in her leotard. Plus, she stopped doing anything and then gained. I'm talking ANYTHING. didn't play out side, didn't color, stopped her favorite creative thing (building tables from scrap wood). MIL lives next door. the other kids would say lets go to grandma's and she'd never go. on and on and on.
Anyhoo - When I wouldn't cave, he said, "I suppose we can do some tests and check her thyroid, but it will just rule it out."
THis visit was 5 days after MIL was diagnosed with a cancerous brain tumor, and was getting yanked around scheduling surgery. It was a week from hell.
So, we go get her blood test. I haven't mentioned that she is reiculously afraid of needles. Two of us held her down. (If you could see me, I'm bawlin just thinking about it). Two days later, the dr calls. He apologized profusely, and thanked me for sticking to my guns. Her TSH was 103. And he wanted an MRI to rule out tumors. Catch that? We're afraid MIL is going to die of a tumor and we are sent to check our baby for one. We just told the girlie they wanted to look in her head. didn't use the T-word.
She did not have a tumor, thank God. But that was oct 18 and we couldn't get into the endo at the children's hospital until the end of Jan!! Its crazy.
Our regular dr started her on 25mcg of the generic synthroid lexo...something. And after 4 days, I started getting my baby back!
all is going well now. so far. but this thread is scaring me to death!
And, now she is seriously overweight and touchy and I don't know how to walk that tughtrope of helping her and not hurting her feelings.