Every Woman's Marathon Recap:
My goal for the race was sub 3:30 to qualify for Boston.  The temps were perfect for it: 50 at the start and was only going to get up to 62 by 10:30 - my goal finish time.  My gps was all over the place so couldn't really track my pace except for at the mile markers.  I was solidly running in the 7:50s range with some slightly under.  I found the 3:30 pacer a little after the 1st mile.  She came up from behind me (when I was already doing sub 8) and that should have been my first clue to stay with her.  She kept pushing the pace and we had to reel her back in.  I believe one or two of the miles was close to a 7:40 which is way too fast.  Come to find out it was only her second marathon so there was definitely some inexperience there.  I don't know how the 3:30 pack finished because I chose to pull back at mile 10 when it became apparent she was not going to stop pushing the pace.  I slowed to closer to an 8 min/mile because I didn't want to blow up and kept a pretty solid 7:55-8:05 for the next 10 miles.  They kept pulling further away so my assumption is the pacer never pulled back to an 8min pace.  Unfortunately my fueling did me in.  I was definitely having issues with nausea on my longer training runs which ultimately led to under fueling.  I was just kind of hoping it wouldn't happen during the race.  But mile 21 the cramps started to set in and at mile 22 I crashed into a giant wall with probably the worse calf cramping I've ever had.  I had to stop and walk.  I was able to force myself to walk/run the rest.  Not on any set interval, just when I thought I could start jogging again, I would.  Those last 4 miles took all my mental strength to keep going.  Managed to pull out a 3:41:58 in the end.  So, no BQ but I'm pretty sure my implosion was due to fueling and not physical capability.  It was also my first marathon in 7 years after taking a hiatus for having my 2 kids (who are now 5 and 21 months).  So, while I'm frustrated that fueling did me in, I'm very happy overall.
Now decision time.  Do I try a 13-week turnaround to the Hilton Head Marathon really focusing on fuel.  Do more of a "maintenance" marathon training since I think fueling aside, I was capable of the pace.