QOTD: How do you determine what your goal is for a race? How far out do you make your decision?
ATTQOTD: I go with a combination of recent race results and my fitness level. I usually make my initial goal for a race once I register for it, and then will adjust it if needed based on how training has gone the week of the race.
For the last couple of years since my surgery I have been sort of floating around with no goals, other than to finish. I have recently found my motivation again and will be back to setting goals. I have a 1/2 on 9/30. I would love to be under 2:00 but I just don't think I am at that point yet. So my goal will be decided as I get closer in this case.
Yesterday ATTQOTD: Sometimes I try to add a little extra mileage to the week, but most of the time I just pull an Elsa and let it go. (Just I'm a lot more annoyed about it than Elsa is)
Today ATTQOTD: I feel like this is one of the few places where I can say this and a few people will understand it ... I don't really set goals. Usually it's just finish. Sometimes it's more about having a good time. Occasionally I'll set a continuous running goal or a time goal, but here's a secret: I've only set a serious time goal once and I didn't reach it*. I have another serious time goal for my next race, and I'm terrified I won't reach it because I never have before. I hate the fact that I'm so scared of this goal. Which is part of why I don't like to set goals ...
Which reminds me.
@LSUlakes, when you get a chance, can you update my goal for my 9/30 race (Bronx 10 Mile) to 1:45:00? I'm trying to squeak into corral D for the marathon. Thanks!
*I actually had time goals twice before, but the second time was with a pacer and was a much less aggressive goal, so I don't really count it
See, this is where I differ from other runners. I don't enjoy "scary" goals. I'm not interested in being faster. Maybe sometimes going further, but only if there's a specific reason for it. I run because I run. I don't run to be a better runner. It's why I have such a hard time relating to other runners most of the time - I don't enjoy pushing myself to reach new goals (whether they're easy to reach or not) and most people don't understand that. I don't run to take myself out of my comfort zone - I run because it's one of the few things I can do where I can stay in my comfort zone and still feel like I'm accomplishing something. Which is why time goals scare me so much - they take me out of my comfort zone and into an area that isn't my normal running mentality, and I don't know that I'm okay with that.
In my opinion it is all in how you look at a goal, or how you frame it to yourself, that determines if it is scary. Instead of giving yourself a time goal and making it scary you can fool your brain and say, "I am going to run this race as fast as possible so I can be done with the race as fast as possible." Then you haven't failed regardless of your finish time because you ran as fast as you could that day, for example. When you finish you will see how fast you could run THAT DAY. There may come a day in the future that you can run faster, there may not.
And someone said something on the previous page about did we really fail if we don't reach our goal. I didn't quote it but I wish I did. I think it depends on how you look at it. If you allow yourself to say you failed then you failed. I think it is OK to be disappointed in missing a goal but are any of us really failures in here? I don't think so. Having been on here for a few years with some of these guys I know their stories. Take
@DopeyBadger for example. He started out running to lose weight and set an example for his daughter. Now he has a goal of a BQ. He hasn't made it yet but is he a failure? In my opinion I would say no way. He lost his weight, he has set an example for his daughter, and look how many people he has helped become better on just this thread alone. He hasn't reached his goal yet, and he will some day, but he is no failure.
We have people that have completed a full Ironman (John), run Boston, come back from injury, dealt with family deaths or illnesses, and they keep running. There are no failures here!
This is fitting today. I did an "easy" 4.5 miles today. Except it wasn't easy. It was one of those runs that hurt and was a struggle the whole time. I was thinking the whole time how frustrated I was and it hit me when I finished, "What are you bit--ing about, you just ran 4.5 miles today and most people couldn't dream of doing that right now". It's all about perspective.