About 7 or 8 years ago, after my life forced me to take a break from running for a few months, I started up again. I started running again by run/walking this 5 mile loop in my country neighborhood, which included a vicious hill. At the top of the hill sits a huge farm/nursery. Sure enough, one morning there is this man and his son sitting in their truck in the parking area, and the man is heckling me. At first I wasn't sure that I had heard him right, so I walked over to his truck and asked what he said. He was surprised and acted like I was accosting him, but his son repeated what his father had said - "Stop pretending to be a runner if you can't run up that hill".
I smiled at the boy and thanked him, then told the father that at least I was trying and went about my day. For a couple of years I used his comment to motivate me every time I got to that hill - sometimes I still do when running repeats up that hill. It hurts to be heckled no matter what you look like, but it turns out that his snide remark helped me far more than it hurt.
Turn it around and use it in a positive way. The hecklers are out there, always looking to make themselves look bigger by making others look smaller. It is a game that you can only win if you refuse to play. Just smile and keep on truckin'.
I have found that people usually put other people down out of fear, unless they are just plain nasty people. Most people say I am crazy for this running thing I do but I think they are just afraid to try it and don't get the benefits I (we) receive from it. It is fear of the hard work, fear of failing, fear of change, etc... Think about it, how could you heckle someone who was climbing a huge hill like that, it makes no sense. Someone is out trying to improve themselves and you make fun of them??? For the original person who posted about being heckled, I am sorry you had to hear that. I am sorry you don't feel pretty when you run. I don't know what you look like but I will tell you that I am proud of you for making a change in your life and attempting to become a better person. I don't care how you look when you run!
Thanks CheapRunnerMike. It's amazing what a retired school teacher can do once she has the time to train! Wondering if I should sign up for Dopey next week. The marathon almost kicked my butt in January, not in terms of injury, but in that I really struggled through the last 5-6 miles and have never been more tired in my life! It took me about 40 minutes longer than my fairly slow goal time of 5:15, so I was a little disappointed. I am trying to talk myself into it.
I am trying to talk myself into doing Goofy this year as well. I am getting divorced so I am not sure I should spend the money on it this year, so it's a bit different for me, but I say do it. As for being tired during the marathon, well yeah, it's a marathon and it turns out marathons are pretty hard. If you weren't tired I would think there may be something wrong with you. I ran it, I was tired.
Business trip, so I'm not paying, but I totally get what you are saying. I (my company) have paid over $600/night for a bad room in Boston during some weeks.
Boston is expensive. Try to find a parking lot for less than $50.
QOTD: I believe my BQ is 3:15. I will keep trying to qualify as soon as I can but what will most likely happen is I will end up having to wait until I hit 45 and my time goes up 5 more minutes. I have really considered doing the charity route for 2017 but the thought of raising $5000 seems more daunting than qualifying.
I have been so slow lately in my runs, I don't know why, possibly because of the cold weather all winter. Tonight I went out for a run after work. The run started at 9pm and I was tired so I wasn't expecting much. I am into my first lap around the neighborhood I run at night and I am flying. I'm like, what the heck is going on here. I just kept going and it was one of those easy runs where you feel great and everything is perfect. I just had to share because I was so excited.

It probably means my next few runs will be slow and painful, that's how it usually happens.