Yeah, I fully agree about Star Wars. I went on 5/4. Got lucky, my flight voucher from the 2020 trip that never happened covered both flights.
I had done the merch run in the mornings after hearing nothing special was out for the parties in order to save some time. Two of my friends freaked out about the shirts, so they did have fans.
I'm sorry to hear you got hit in the Ahsoka drama. She was our main want as well. Again we got lucky and saw CMs putting up a backdrop, and when we asked security we were directly told she would not be showing up that day either.
Friends who cared about food grabbed the mobile order slots as soon as they became available. The Christmas parties had the same issue, so they rushed. I only grabbed that Hot Dog from Refreshment Corner towards the end of the night when my blood sugar suddenly took a nosedive. The only thing that had tickled my fancy was at Jolly Holiday, and those slots were gone too fast.
Didn't see the fireworks. Well saw like 4 rockets. When the Ahsoka priority collapsed we ended up in line at Tomorrowland Terrace for the Dark Side and seeing we just made the switch between Maul and Palpatine there was no chance in the universe I was giving up that spot.
The most ridiculous thing at that point were the lines for the backdrops, and the estimates CMs were giving. My friend really wanted Jabba's Palace. Okay, fine - CM estimated 20 minutes. Took us over an hour to get through that line. For a backdrop.
Got the Droids done and then headed for Town Square. By the time we had met Seventh Sister and saw the Saber March our other friend had finally conquered the Ewoks line, after over 2 hours and was in line at Small World for the Jawas because the Droid line was cut off already.
In the Ezra/Sabine line it was my turn to get yelled at then. Well yelled at again. It had happened before, in the Dark Side line. I think by the end of the event the CMs were starting to panic because the photo lines were still long. Don't get me wrong. I love seeing the costumes, especially groups. But if you tolerate the Skywalker family doing a group pic with Darth Vader and then going through every possible combination - Luke/Leia with Darth, Leia/Han with Darth, Leia/Ben Solo with Darth etc. - then it is completely out of line to yell at the photographer of a solo Jedi for "taking so much time" when said photographer asks for a quick solo shot of just the characters. I took 2 exactly, like the Photopass people, one horizontal and one vertical. One camera, no switches, all settings tried and tested. The CM at the Ezra/Sabine line even loudly complained afterwards that I "wasn't being fair" because "Photopass had already taken an extra picture of me." Yeah like I could tell he had taken 3 instead of the standard 2 with no flash going off.

I consider myself very relaxed, but I did mention that explicitly in the survey I got.
In general Photopass was on the weird side. The Palpatine guy did not take any Photopass photos of me and my friend (with the pro camera), but did take pictures of our other friend (with just the phone). We had problems at the last After Dark Events. They never replied to my friend when her Christmas Carol photos from the Chritmas party never appeared, and same friend's King Leonidas photos never appeared after the Villains event either. For that one Photopass has been asking for the same info for 5 times now. So no more character lines without safety shots for us.