The REAL Longest Thread In Dis History Part 5

[Trentmom]

So I started to plan our May 2008 trip and then realized that baby #2 will interfere with this a bit...If we get preggos now, he/she will be due in March/April so I guess a trip in May really isn't advisable.

We took DD at 3 months which I thought was really good.

Maybe wait until Sept....less crowds....MNSSHP....

 

[Disneymommom]

What are you guys doing? You busy reading and catching up???? I'm lonely.

 

[Marshay]

Maybe wait until Sept....less crowds....MNSSHP....

Yeah, I was hoping to go again before she turned 3 so we wouldn't have to pay for her!

 

[Marshay]

What are you guys doing? You busy reading and catching up???? I'm lonely.

Sorrrrrrrry, I was actually reading the other threads tonight...now going to bed.

 

[Disneymommom]

Sorrrrrrrry, I was actually reading the other threads tonight...now going to bed.

Well goodnight then Marshay. Pleasant dreams and have a magical day tomorrow!!!

 

[Trentmom]

Sorry,,,,,I was watching tv....

 

[Disneymommom]

Sorry,,,,,I was watching tv....

Whatcha watching? I'm watching Will & Grace and then going to watch Frasier as I didn't see anything else on that I wanted to watch.

 

[Disneymommom]

What is DS doing? Is he calm and getting ready for bed?

 

[Disneymommom]

Seems I am here all alone. I think I'll sign off for the night, finish watching my show and then go to bed. Goodnight all, sweet dreams!

 

[FHS_chick_2005]

Seems I am here all alone. I think I'll sign off for the night, finish watching my show and then go to bed. Goodnight all, sweet dreams!

Hey mama! I'm here right now.. just thinkin so I dont know if I would be good company...

 

[Disneymommom]

Hey mama! I'm here right now.. just thinkin so I dont know if I would be good company...

I was messing around on some other threads while watching TV and saw you posted so got back on. How was work?

 

[Disneymommom]

Hey mama! I'm here right now.. just thinkin so I dont know if I would be good company...

Whatcha thinking about? Anything wrong? Hope all is well.

 

[FHS_chick_2005]

I was messing around on some other threads while watching TV and saw you posted so got back on. How was work?

looooooooooong...

 

[Disneymommom]

looooooooooong...

That stinks. I thought you should have been home by now from how early you said you were getting dressed for work! How was working in wet pants, lol?

 

[FHS_chick_2005]

Whatcha thinking about? Anything wrong? Hope all is well.

my fiance is being a butt and my parents are going to be moving and I can move with them but if I do my fiance doesnt really want to try to keep things together because he doesnt like long distance relationships and neither do i.. and he wants me to move in eith him and his parents but he wont get his stuff together and talk to his mom and stuff... and i am behind on all my bills and I just dont know what to do anymore.. on top of all that i feel like crap..

 

[FHS_chick_2005]

That stinks. I thought you should have been home by now from how early you said you were getting dressed for work! How was working in wet pants, lol?

the pants werent THAT wet!

I went to the cemetary and tried to patch things up with an old friend but it didnt work.

 

[Disneymommom]

the pants werent THAT wet!

I went to the cemetary and tried to patch things up with an old friend but it didnt work.

First you need to stop and think what you really want? Do you really love butthead enough to leave your parents? How far away are they moving? Can you afford to move in with your fiance and his Mom because you will have to pay all your own bills with no help from your parents and most likely you would be expected to chip in for room and board which will cost you more. Then you need to think that your fiance is not doing his part by talking to his family about the situation and what does that mean? Why is he dragging his feet? Love should be enough to keep your relationship alive for a while long distance while you catch up with your bills.
Think about everything before you make any rash decisions! I just don't want to see you hurt!

 

[Disneymommom]

the pants werent THAT wet!

I went to the cemetary and tried to patch things up with an old friend but it didnt work.

What do you mean you tried to patch things up and it didn't work? Did yu go visit the grave of an old friend and sit there and talk to them but you didn't feel better afterwards? Sometimes that does help to go talk to someone who passed away, you can pray and talk and say how you feel and it makes you feel better inside.

 

[FHS_chick_2005]

First you need to stop and think what you really want? Do you really love butthead enough to leave your parents? How far away are they moving? Can you afford to move in with your fiance and his Mom because you will have to pay all your own bills with no help from your parents and most likely you would be expected to chip in for room and board which will cost you more. Then you need to think that your fiance is not doing his part by talking to his family about the situation and what does that mean? Why is he dragging his feet? Love should be enough to keep your relationship alive for a while long distance while you catch up with your bills.
Think about everything before you make any rash decisions! I just don't want to see you hurt!

thats why I am so spun.. i love josh so much that I dont want to leave but I am scared that my parents arent going to do ok because I do so much for them.. and I think thats whats tearing me up and has me in tears is that I am afraid my dad is going to fall and hurt himself because he likes to do so much and the closest hospital up there sucks.. I know if I moved in with josh his parents wouldnt ask for much but maybe some help with food and my dad will still help me with my bills... i think Josh is just scared to actually take the next step because we have been talking about it forever.. my parents are only moving about an hour and 45 minutes away and I can get there in my sleep... you know.. its where my great grandpa used to live.. and i think that has me all torn up inside too...

 

[Disneymommom]

thats why I am so spun.. i love josh so much that I dont want to leave but I am scared that my parents arent going to do ok because I do so much for them.. and I think thats whats tearing me up and has me in tears is that I am afraid my dad is going to fall and hurt himself because he likes to do so much and the closest hospital up there sucks.. I know if I moved in with josh his parents wouldnt ask for much but maybe some help with food and my dad will still help me with my bills... i think Josh is just scared to actually take the next step because we have been talking about it forever.. my parents are only moving about an hour and 45 minutes away and I can get there in my sleep... you know.. its where my great grandpa used to live.. and i think that has me all torn up inside too...

AWWW, what a shame. You are being torn in every direction. Apparently your parents have health problems (I'm gathering) and they depend on you to help them, is that correct? So naturally because you are such a sweet girl you don't want to desert your parents. Have they given you their blessings to move in with Josh and for them to go on their own? If they have you need to accept that gracefully and not feel guilty. You said it's only an hour & 45 mins away so you could be there easily any time they need you.

On the other hand, do you see Josh every night? If not, perhaps you can stay with your parents and run back and forth to see him though I know gas prices there must be insane. Could he meet you half way, and I mean by this that one weekend he come to your place, another you go to his? What about your job?Will Lowes transfer you to one there?

Why are your parents moving? Are they going to be in the house that your great grandpa used to live? Is this going to be upsetting? If you were very close to him maybe it would be comforting?

Are you and Josh making wedding plans for the future? He needs to move forward if he is serious. You eed to know for sure where things stands before you make a decision.