Welcome back home, Nicole. It sounds like you had a good time, even if it was a bit busy. How is the on the job training going so far? Do you like it? Please remind me which airline you're working for. Lyzzie has a friend whose mom works for Delta and seems to really like it. I'm not sure exactly what she does, I think she works at the check-in desk.
I am so stressed out. Lyzzie's grandparents are coming for a visit tonight, and her dad is coming tomorrow. They just told me less than 2 weeks ago that they are coming. So far I haven't spoken to them on the phone at all. They talked to Lyzzie once, my mom has called them a couple of times (she is picking them up at the airport soon, because I'll be in school when the arrive which I think was done on purpose) and Lyzzie's grandma has sent me about 2 emails with a total of maybe 6 sentences. They are staying in a hotel 20 minutes away rather than the one I had Lyzzie suggest which is just down the street. Since her dad refuses to fly, he is coming by bus and they have to pick him up an hour away early tomorrow morning. I know they are going to try to get Lyzzie to spend the night in their hotel tonight, and I don't want her to. She needs time to get re-aquainted with them before running off for an overnight. The whole communication issue is really weird. I have no idea what they plan on doing while they're here for a week and a half, I don't know if I'm expected to feed or entertain them, or even if I'm invited when they take Lyzzie anywhere. (Too bad if I'm not.) Lyzzie's grandma is the one who usually makes all the arrangements and she hasn't spoken to me since I refused to send Lyzzie alone for 3 weeks last summer. She is very passive aggressive with me and it drives me crazy. Lyzzie's dad makes next to no effort to be a father to her and just doesn't "get it."
I don't know if they even know I'm unemployed and out of money. I'm sure they will want to take Lyzzie to a bunch of really fun places that I can't afford to go along with. Letting her go alone is not an option I'm comfortable with. I always feel like I need to hang around and not just let her go off with them, because I think they don't take good care of her. They think I'm just bossy. Last time they all visited (5 years ago) I went to pick up Lyzzie at the hotel and her dad had her in the hot tub, her legs were lobster-red up to her thighs and she was sweating bullets! He had no idea it's not safe to put a 5-yo in 120 degree water.

I know they all mean well and I don't want to keep her from having a relationship with her family but it is very stressful for me. She is practically a stranger to them, and frankly so am I. It's going to be a very awkward couple of weeks.
On top of all that, it has made Emma bring up lots of questions about her dad and grandparents, who of course are not part of our lives at all. It's been pretty hard on her. She fully expects Lyzzie's family to treat her just like they treat Lyzzie, which I know isn't going to happen. They are nice to Emma, but she is no relation to them so of course it's not the same.
I've been cleaning the house for the last 2 weeks and it is still messy but at least it keeps my mind off what the heck to DO with these people while they're here! Wish me luck!! Sorry for such a long vent, I'm sure there will be more in the next week or two.