From what I've read the difficulty is that some people are getting email invitations and some are just using the "secret" link that was posted on the DIS. Some of those who didn't receive invitations are being told when they arrive that their reservation can't be found and they're asking them if they received the email. The suggestion is to take a screen shot (or print) your confirmation page in case that happens. I'm such a rule follower, that I feel nervous booking without getting the email, but I might just in case we don't get one, since some are saying they didn't get the email until they actually arrived for their vacation. (The planner in me needs to know sooner than that! ha!) As for BOG lunch, we tried it last summer and loved it. In fact, we chose to forego dinner there and do lunch again this year. The dinner menu didn't really appeal to us that much, and the prices were a little much for how little we'd actually eat. Their cupcakes are A-MAZING! I think your son will love them! It's a shame more places can't guarantee a fresh nut free dessert!