Yeah, I visit the Clayboard too, but I just scour for news. As soon as a discussion is longer than three pages, it's usually off to Looneytuneville. Although I do have to say that yes, some of the fans posting there are very nice, very normal, and very thoughtful. My main "Clayfriend" and I started emailing because she posted that someone had stolen her tour program, and she asked if anyone going to a show would be able to get one for her. I offered to buy it, and she sent me the cash (plus extra) before the concert had even happened. Since then, we've mailed surprises back and forth to each other a lot, but she's the one who is always thinking of me. She knows my internet connection is super slow, so whenever she downloads something new that she thinks I'd like, she sends me a copy too. She's also the one who got me a book from the Orlando signing.
It's so cliche to say, but Clay has been one of the few very bright spots over the last 8 months or so for me. With my aunt getting sick and passing away and then losing my Gram three months later, Clay really has been an inspiration and his music just makes me smile. Not in a stalkerish way...just in a "it's nice to have to look forward to" kind of way. My Clayfriend was part of that too, because she always had words of wisdom of her own to share, far beyond the Clay. I hope I can repay all the favors she's done for me someday - I promised her a first edition of my book (WHEN it's published), but I think I'll have to do better than that.
So anyway, point being, yep, the Clayboard has some really sweet, good-intentioned people, along with the nuts. I love the ones that want to start email campaigns to, like, Leno, because he made a joke about Clay. Or they boycott the Grammy awards because he's not nominated. And the ones who have been to dozens of shows? Yeah, um...that's a little scary.
But Brandie, I gotta tell ya....I don't have a wonderful husband at home, so I like a little "fantasy" to hold on to.

(And, personally, I'd like it a little better if if the fantasy wanted to hold on, too!!)