So glad your Mom is improving, lovesdumbo. Prayers and PD for continued good news. For a monorail restaurant, we love Narcoossee's - nice atmosphere, though not at all stuffy, great views, excellent fish. I also like Citrico's a lot, but DH is a pickier eater and sometimes has difficulty finding something acceptable on the menu. I'm also a big fan of Artist Point, though it isn't on the monorail. As for tours, we enjoyed the Segway tour last year, but it's really more of a Segway ride, as you don't get lots of backstage info and "secrets" as you do on other tours. Keys to the Kingdom is also good, a nice compromise if you don't want to spend 7 hours on the Backstage Magic tour. My DH really liked hearing about all the business strategies and psychology behind the MK. Since your DH has an interest in Ag, how about the Behind the Seeds tour at the Land pavilion? He'd get to see the greenhouses with their hydroponic salad greens and upside down tomato vines and the other innovative growing techniques they employ.
I have been thrown right back into extra-long work days, not to mention the inevitable post-trip laundry, mail, phone messages, etc., but I will post a trip report by the weekend. In addition to the planned meetings with other LLs I ran into BCV23 again (we were across the hall from each other in October, too) and met Minniesota for drinks with her adorable daughter. It was wonderful to meet these literal strangers/virtual friends and find conversation flowed naturally and easily, thanks to our Lizard Lounge rapport.
For those who asked earlier about WoodysRU, I called her today. She is well, the exhausted mom of a healthy baby girl in addition to her 2 pre-schoolers. She did get to enjoy her planned May WDW trip with her family in spite of her DH breaking his ankle 4 days before departure. I know she appreciates everyone worrying (and caring) about where she's been, and wants you all to know that she is just exceedingly busy and hardly ever on-line anymore.
Now I need to be offline and back in the real world before the to-do list buries me!