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[pigletgirl]

Matt, just enjoy yourself. Enjoy being a single guy who gets to have fun! Don't be caught up in 'if I only had a girlfriend.' She'll come along.

 

[AliceinHalloweentown]

Middle school sucked for me too. I did go through bouts of depression as well, mostly due to my friends sucking hard then and being terrible people.

I dunno, I find I meet guys on my own. My best guy friend started talking to me for no reason, my boyfriend sure my friend sorta introduced us but if I hadn't made an effort to talk to him we wouldn't be together..
And other guy friends I just know.

I was the weird new girl... My one friend that I still have was relatively nice to me in the beginning, but nobody actually liked me. Infact, I'm pretty sure she hated me. And for the next few years she was on and off with me, which was difficult. Not to mention the little *cough* clique (I say that loosely, it was a small middle school) she was in hated me.

But I helped her through some difficult things and she returned the favor, and now we're like sisters.

Anyways, high school's been much better but I still spend every weekend at home.

 

[JulielovesDisney]

Wow thank you very much. That really made me feel better!! Ha ha biggest thing I need to boot right now is this self conscious thing. I know im not THAT bad looking, but I always feel so bad when talking to a girl, it always seems like they are judging me, especially the cute ones . But again, thank you very much, it means quite a bit.

No problem Matt. I'm glad I could help.
And I understand the self conscious thing. I was the same way, but I eventualy just kind of got over that. I don't really know how, but I guess I just grew out of it. I realized that looks weren't everything. And if someone does think looks are everything, and I don't live up to those expectations, then I don't want them in my life.
And you are good looking, and from the little that I've talked to you on here, you have a good personality too, which is faaaarrrrrr more important, because looks don't last forever.

Julie has the power to make people feel better about themselves

it sounds kind of cheesy but it's very true!

Haha..thanks! That means a lot. I love making people feel better..haha.
I wonder if there's a career for that..
I'll be a professional-people-cheer-upper...

I agree! GO NANA!! XD

Hehe..thanks!

I wouldn't have to worry bout the friends thing since my teenage years currently suck.
Long story. Bad middle school that ruined me... depression when I was 11.... never got over it... anyways. I have pretty much one friend that would invite me to do stuff/wants to do stuff with me.
So I don't really meet guys and my self confidence is shot anyways and I'm always ranting on these boards so I'll shush up

The DIS is honestly that best place for ranting! lol
I've abused this site for all my vents! =)

I know. The first day was like OMG kill me.

I've had minor cramps for the past couple of days..but still no Aunt Flow..grrr

 

[Hawaiidood]

Lol aww is Matt scared of Aunt Flo?

Ha ha no im scared of what Aunt Flo can do...

 

[DisneyLily]

There there *Pats shoulders at a very large distance*

XD
You have NO idea.

 

[princesskelz]

Ha ha if you saw me in real life, im not really the most attractive dude around.

......i have seen your pictures...your not too bad looking..

Lol aww is Matt scared of Aunt Flo?

she will help us all when were trying to have kids
i hate her right now!

 

[DisneyLily]

I've had minor cramps for the past couple of days..but still no Aunt Flow..grrr

:hugs:

I hate trying to figure out when she'll POP by.

 

[Hawaiidood]

No problem Matt. I'm glad I could help.
And I understand the self conscious thing. I was the same way, but I eventualy just kind of got over that. I don't really know how, but I guess I just grew out of it. I realized that looks weren't everything. And if someone does think looks are everything, and I don't live up to those expectations, then I don't want them in my life.
And you are good looking, and from the little that I've talked to you on here, you have a good personality too, which is faaaarrrrrr more important, because looks don't last forever.

Damn you! You are good at this advice/cheering up thing. Thank you bunches again.

 

[AliceinHalloweentown]

The DIS is honestly that best place for ranting! lol
I've abused this site for all my vents! =)

Teehee I think I do too xD

 

[pigletgirl]

Middle school was awful. Such an awkward time of life. Everyone changes. Girls are super mean.

 

[wdwllamadancer]

Damn you! You are good at this advice/cheering up thing. Thank you bunches again.

hate to say i told you so.....

 

[JulielovesDisney]

She's SuperJulie xD

Haha! Let me go get my cape...

Ha ha no im scared of what Aunt Flo can do...

But Aunt Flow means no babies..which is good at our age!!

:hugs:

I hate trying to figure out when she'll POP by.

OMG! I KNOWWW!! It's so frustrating! Especially when it's late..ughh!

 

[Hawaiidood]

hate to say i told you so.....

Ha ha I know!!! and now its killing me!!

 

[ginnygirl102]

Ha ha no im scared of what Aunt Flo can do...

lol yeah that is pretty scary....

 

[wdwllamadancer]

No problem Matt. I'm glad I could help.
And I understand the self conscious thing. I was the same way, but I eventualy just kind of got over that. I don't really know how, but I guess I just grew out of it. I realized that looks weren't everything. And if someone does think looks are everything, and I don't live up to those expectations, then I don't want them in my life.
And you are good looking, and from the little that I've talked to you on here, you have a good personality too, which is faaaarrrrrr more important, because looks don't last forever.


Haha..thanks! That means a lot. I love making people feel better..haha.
I wonder if there's a career for that..
I'll be a professional-people-cheer-upper...


Hehe..thanks!


The DIS is honestly that best place for ranting! lol
I've abused this site for all my vents! =)



I've had minor cramps for the past couple of days..but still no Aunt Flow..grrr

a motivational speaker!!

 

[DisneyLily]

OMG! I KNOWWW!! It's so frustrating! Especially when it's late..ughh!

Yes!
For like the past 5 months its been at the same time, and this time it was LATE! I was like ARRR.

 

[Hawaiidood]

But Aunt Flow means no babies..which is good at our age!!

Ha ha no Aunt Flo means mood swings, which usually end in fist swings...at my head.

 

[pigletgirl]

professional people cheerer upper. OK. That is totally tag worthy!

 

[AliceinHalloweentown]

Middle school was awful. Such an awkward time of life. Everyone changes. Girls are super mean.

*nod*
Couldn't agree more.

The one or two kids that nobody likes?/can stand Yeah, that was me. It was only a 40 person grade... and it was K-8, I entered in 6th. The friends were made, the cliques tight, and I had just moved to MI the month before.

 

[JulielovesDisney]

Damn you! You are good at this advice/cheering up thing. Thank you bunches again.

not a problem!!

Teehee I think I do too xD

lol the DIS is amazing!

Middle school was awful. Such an awkward time of life. Everyone changes. Girls are super mean.

Ugh..7th & 8th grade are so embarrassing..I'm still trying to forget those years..lol
So awkward...

hate to say i told you so.....