Lars,
Tell your daughter I said congratulations on made the cheerleading squad! She sounds like a very wonderful girl to be so concerned/sad about her BF!
My 17 yr. old DD is also a cheerleader and is on the HS Band Dance Line. She is not doing basketball cheerleading this year - it ended up being 5 nights a week for the past two years. She's a Junior this year in HS, taking all AP classes, plus she's still doing the Dance Line as our football team is still in the playoffs. She also takes dance classes 2, sometimes 3 days a week and also works part-time. Enough was enough.
Is this your DD's first year of cheeleading? Is it for basketball? My DD loves to cheer, she was always the flyer and gymnast on the squad! She particularly loved doing the half-time dances!!
Pam