I think the great servers know who they are & don't shove the speech down your throat. They are confident that the service they provide will exceed your expectations....
On our 3 cruises with
DCL, we only got the speech on #2. Our serving team seemed to be a bit uptight & nervous. They started in with "excellent" this & that & we shut it down after about 5 minutes.
I am not a person that "beats around the bush", but I'm also mindful of people's feelings. We told them very nicely that we did not appreciate words sublimely being suggested to us & it was obvious that "excellent" was the word of the day to get us primed for the survey at the end of the week & it was getting old already... We told them to loosen up & treat us the way they would wanted to be treated if the roles were reversed. We expect excellence from DCL & anything less would be cause for great disappointment. We said the bar had been hoisted very high from our first cruise, that's why we were back. We expected them to at least meet that standard, but we would like them to exceed it... They were a bit taken back, but then asked what we liked about our last servers. We told them & they made mental notes. We had a great experience with them for the entire cruise. Not that they jumped through hoops, but they asked what we wanted & gave it us + more very graciously. We had a great time with them, they played practical jokes on us, which we of course returned in kind... & they got their excellent on the survey cards without asking. The last morning, they both told us they appreciated our honesty about the excellent thing. It made it easier of them to know what we wanted & what kind of people we were. The server said he would never do that to a guest again, as we made him realize how foolish they sounded. If that is true, that's great. In any event we got the speech to stop & it worked out great.
On cruise #1 & this last one, there was no mention of excellent or the survey at all. Both teams just said that they were there to meet our needs & make our DCL experience enjoyable, which they did indeed. They were confident, took pride in their work & it showed. On our 11/8 cruise, our servers were the best ever. We said they should be crowned "Kings of the Dining Room". Both of them said that they love their job & know they are one of the best, but that was the nicest compliment anyone could give them. They never said, please write that on the survey... They just knew we would by the way they treated us. All the servers should be like Attila & Goran. No speeches necessary...
~ Linda