The end is near...

[janette]

{{{{HUGS}}}} how very hard to lose those we love. Make every moment count.

 

[Maray]

My heart goes out to you and your Mom.
I don't post much,but I have been following your posts.
I could tell you are a loving, caring daughter.
I was hoping that maybe there was an experimental Clinical trial available for your mom.
I was so happy for you when I read the post about your friend coming to town and the baskets you were making.
I thought ,oh good, at least she will have a little respite
from her sadness.
It's funny how even those of us that lurk more than we post
still feel that all of you are "Family and Friends",
and keep checking back to see how you all are doing.
I wish there was something more I could do for you...

((((HUGS))))

Take care of yourself ,too, Hon.
Call Hospice, they are a great organization, and will be of great help to you,your mom, and family during this most difficult time.
Let them help you, you HAVE been SO strong for so long.
Marilyn

 

[catsrule]

I am so sorry, mishetta. Thank goodness your mom has a wonderful DD and SIL and family that loves her soooooo much.

 

[newmousecateer]

It is so very hard with illnesses get to this stage. I am so sorry.

{{HUGS}} for you and your Mother.

 

[Mishetta]

Oh my gosh, in all my sadness about the latest news from the Oncologist, I forgot my friend was coming in! Well, the good thing is that she'll get to see my Mom for the last time. It will be good for both of them as they love each other so.

Thank you all again. I can feel your energy. Plz pass that energy on to my Mom ~ Margo ~ to help her either completely recover (miracles do happen) or to pass away in her sleep, as that is her dream. I'd prefer the miracle if you all don't mind.

 

[CEDmom]

I'm praying

 

[Dan Murphy]

Rose, your words bring another tear today, first this morning with Robin and this afternoon, your mom. We have 'talked', and you have shown how compassionate and caring you are, just as you have here. My continued good wishes and prayers for you, a loving daughter, and for your mom. {{Hugs}}.

Dan

 

[always quiet]

I understand how you feel. My mother had Altzheimers. One of the last phases of it, after it takes away all your humanity, is the patient refuses food or drink. She was force fed for a short while and then we discussed a feeding tube. My mother had a living will and wouldn't of wanted that, but the doctors were such SOBs about it. You see "technically" Altzheimers itself it not a terminal illness and that was one of the things mentioned in her living will. I guess they were afraid of reprocusions, and they wanted the feeding tube. We refused and within the week, she was gone. It was hard to see happen, but I know it would of been what she wanted.

{HUGS} to you. I'll be saying some prayers for you and your mom.

 

[binny]

(((hugs)))

So much sadness today. I pray for an easy passing when she is ready

 

[Maray]

You've got it, sweetie

Sending prayers, Pixie Dust and lots of positive thoughts &
energy to you, Margo.

Rose, have the Oncologists looked into Clinical trials ?
I don't know her history and I'm sure she has been thru so much already, but I don't remember reading if she had any transplants or such?
Hang in there, both of you.
Hugs, again,
Marilyn

Enjoy your friends visit, making those baskets was so sweet of you!
Feel free to PM or e-mail me if I can help in any way.

 

[Buckalew]

{{{hugs}}} to you, Mishetta. I am so sorry that life and death hurt so badly. I will pray for your Mom and for you to have strength and comfort and peace to handle what is His will for her life. You will certainly have no regrets in the care that you have given to your dear Mother.

 

[tkyes]

I'm so sorry to hear this.

You and your mom and your family have my prayers.



Tamie

 

[Beauty]

Rose,

I'm so sorry! Great big {{{HUGS}}} to all of you. I know first hand what a strong person you have been through everything! I love you so much and you know I'm always here for you. Anything you need just email me!

princessjasmine@cox-internet.com

 

[snoopy]

{{{Mishetta}}} I am so very sorry.

I know what your feelings of helplnessness are like, its so very hard to watch a parent die. I'm just a PM away if you need a shoulder to lean on.

 

[ead79]

Mishetta,

I'm so sorry to hear that your mom isn't doing well. I will certainly remember her in my prayers. I can't image how hard it must be on her and on your family. I too believe in miracles, and I will pray for one for your mom. If that is not to be, then I will pray for a peaceful death with no pain. Please let me know if there is anything at all I can do.

Elisabeth

 

[Maleficent2]

I am so sorry for yours and your mom's pain...{{hugs to your family}}



Mal

 

[helenabear]

I am so sorry to hear that your mom is not doing well. I know that can be very hard to watch. I will keep her in my prayers and hope for a miracle fo her. {{hugs}} to you all

 

[Lezah]

My heart goes out to you and your family. Don't be surprised though at the memories that your kids will have at their age. My DS was about 2 when my MIL passed away at 58 of colon cancer. He still talks about her and dreams about her. He remembers a lot about her and what she said, did, and bought him. They will surprise you, I'm sure. Not that this makes this experience any easier for you. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Have you ever thought of a remembrance book that your Mom could do for them? I bought a book a while ago for my Mom to write down things in called "Grandmother remembers" it is a good way to remember their life. She hasn't written anything in it yet, but hopefully she will. Just an idea. Hope it helps a bit.

 

[Tinkbell]

((HUGS)) You and your mom will be in my prayers.

 

[Tiger Fan]

Sending prayers and peace to your family.
Lisa