The DDA Trouble Free Zone Part 7

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Denise,

I wish I could find something to say to make you feel better, but I think the only thing right now would be for Rees to make a full recovery.
Continue to listen to your "mommy instincts" & keep on the doctor's..Ultimately you know what is best for Rees.
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Brendita said:
Morning you all.
I hope all of you are fine.
We are all settled in our new apartment.
Trying to catch up.
I'm back on page 1705.
A little in the A.M & a bit in the evening.
You all just are to chatty.
Give a poor ol' girl a break.
Later. :wave:



Hi Jo,
Glad the move went well.
Now just to find a job in Atlanta :goodvibes
 
triplefigs said:
thanks for the good wishes. I am totally depressed. Knowing he is refluxing again is horrible. He literally almost died from it the first time around, so for this to be starting again is making me sick. John is very upset with the results too. Having it be "medium" was our worst fear. Yes, it is bad, but we won't fix it with surgery. The first time, it took us almost 2 years of agony, hospitalizations, etc to convince the doc to do the Fundo surgery. He is one of those that surgery is absolutely the last resort and will try anything and everything else first. After the Fundo, Rees was a different child and it was a complete success! So now, I'm worried he's "playing" us again and will make us try everything else under the sun before redoing the surgery.

I've actually contacted my good friend who has a personal friend that is a Peds GI doc and surgeon down at Emory University Med School. Last time, he suggested the Fundo a year before we got it. I'll be interested to hear his opinion. John and I both think there is more to this than the tests showed. I think my mom instinct has kicked in. I'm worried, and I don't know why. Thanks for listening to me ramble. I know I should think this is good news, but I just feel like something is amiss.
If that is your gut instinct, Denise, then I say go for the second opinion. At least it would alleviate your worries.
 
Tammi67 said:
If that is your gut instinct, Denise, then I say go for the second opinion. At least it would alleviate your worries.

Exactly what I was going to say - I didn't know I was part of the "shared brain" club.

Kate: I hope you get the answers you need tomorrow and Wednesday.

Denise: The pool at POR is much nicer and more fun than the one at the Contemporary (and you can use the one at POFQ with the dragon slide, too.
 

Tinkaroo said:
Tammi, if you'd send me the link, that would be great! I'm looking to make my nieces autograph books when they go with us in 2007, and I saw someone's (what I'm guessing was a CM product) book in March that I really liked. I want it to be extra special for them - it will probably be part of their early Christmas present from us that year.
Sent you a PM
 
John just called. His car died in the middle of a major intersection and won't move. They can't push it as he is on a hill and it'll roll. So I just got the kids out of bed and we're on our way to pick him up. Fun, fun, fun!
 
Marti, have you got your shoes colored yet for the DDA trip?

Tammi67 said:
HHmmmm....perhaps you should sprinkle some dye on white leather tennis shoes. :rotfl:

UP Disney said:
I was thinking exactly the same thing!!! I mean if I can try to make Pal Mickey some matching ones, so can she.
 
I found out late last week that I am changing jobs again, and with the new job I will be going to Colorado in a couple of weeks to train. Theresa, how far are you from Fort Collins?

Anyway as background to all of this, I feel a need to spill my story, feel free to ignore if needed. My work life over the last several months has been extremely stressful. DH and I both work for Kodak in Rochester, NY. Rochester is Kodak's headquarters. At it's peak, Kodak employed over 60,000 people in Rochester in the early 1980s. This year Kodak employment in Rochester is less than 14,000 and falling.

Last August, 2005 they announced that they would be closing down the traditional photographic paper manufacturing operations in Rochester, where both my DH and I work. Everyone was being laid off, but they would be keeping 2 machines running and transferring them to a new division. Anyone that wanted to continue employment with the new division had to apply for any jobs they were interested in. Fortunately for both of us, the 2 machines they were keeping were the 2 machines we worked for, and both of our jobs would be continued, but we had to apply for them, and if selected, interview for them.

We were both very fortunate, and secured our own positions. Over 80% of the people in our division weren't so lucky, and about 400 people in paper manufacturing were laid off at the end of October, 2005, including most of our friends. We went for about 2 months not knowing for sure if we would be employed, but ended up relieved to both have jobs, though sad for what this means to Kodak, and to US manufacturing in general. We have been through anywhere from 1 - 3 layoffs/year for the last 15 years or so, so it has been stressful for years, but this was even worse, with closing down our whole manufacturing area.

So a week later, after everyone who was laid off left the company, they called us all together and told us that the machine I had been supporting would now be shutting down at the end of March, 2006. They told us that they would let us know at the end of January if they had positions for us. So I had a total of 1 week feeling good about having a job before they put me into limbo again for another 3 months.

Because of the uncertainty, I had my resume up to date and out on Monster.com. I would occasionally get calls from recruiters, but was not actively pursuing any new jobs. Then in January I got a call from a recruiter regarding a job that sounded really good to me, and I decided to go on an interview, since Kodak wouldn't tell me if I definitely would have a job or not. Well, 3 days before I had the interview, Kodak informed me that they were going to keep me and move me into a new posiition. At that point I decided to go on the interview anyway, since I had already made the arrangements, including flying out to Madison Wisconsin later that week.

Well the good news is that the interview went great, and I got offered a really good job, with a huge increase in pay. So DH and I spent many hours discussing the pros and cons of moving to Madison, WI and me taking this job. All of our families were very supportive of us going, since they have seen all the stress we have gone through with Kodak. In the end, for a number of reasons, we decided to stay at Kodak in Rochester. Not so much because of Kodak, but because of family. So of course we have been waiting to see if we made the right choice.

There are no guarantee's, but last week another girl announced that she would be leaving to take a job with another company. They decided to offer me her job. It is a much more interesting and exciting job, and there is more job security with it, as long as Kodak doesn't decide to shut down completely of course. So for the short term anyway it seems like my decision to stay isn't so bad, and I'm glad that I was patient. I will be working longer hours through some big challenges in the next few months as we start up a new manufacturing machine, but it will be much more interesting than the last several months of downsizing and shutting down and laying off.

I just wanted to share that little piece of my life. Maybe I can look forward to a year of no threat of losing my job. We'll see.
 
triplefigs said:
John just called. His car died in the middle of a major intersection and won't move. They can't push it as he is on a hill and it'll roll. So I just got the kids out of bed and we're on our way to pick him up. Fun, fun, fun!

I sure wish there would be more thick around the Triplefigs home!!!!! :goodvibes :goodvibes:goodvibes:goodvibes:goodvibes Know that we are here to listen whenever you need to vent! We love you and the entire Figs family!
 
ellenbenny said:
I found out late last week that I am changing jobs again, and with the new job I will be going to Colorado in a couple of weeks to train. Theresa, how far are you from Fort Collins?
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I just wanted to share that little piece of my life. Maybe I can look forward to a year of no threat of losing my job. We'll see.

:wizard: Ellen that you will find some security in your job! I know the feeling of being happy when someone finds a new job as it leads to just a little more security for you. Good luck in your new position!
 
triplefigs said:
John just called. His car died in the middle of a major intersection and won't move. They can't push it as he is on a hill and it'll roll. So I just got the kids out of bed and we're on our way to pick him up. Fun, fun, fun!

Oh yuck! I hope that John was able to get to safety easy enough and the kids are easy to get back to bed. :wizard: that the repairs will be easy, quick and cheap!
 
ellenbenny said:
I found out late last week that I am changing jobs again, and with the new job I will be going to Colorado in a couple of weeks to train. Theresa, how far are you from Fort Collins?

Anyway as background to all of this, I feel a need to spill my story, feel free to ignore if needed. My work life over the last several months has been extremely stressful. DH and I both work for Kodak in Rochester, NY. Rochester is Kodak's headquarters. At it's peak, Kodak employed over 60,000 people in Rochester in the early 1980s. This year Kodak employment in Rochester is less than 14,000 and falling.

Here's some pixie dust from Tink herself :tink: that it continues to have been the right decision. The stress you have been through is not easy but I'm glad you have both been lucky ones.
 
tmfranlk said:
:wizard: Ellen that you will find some security in your job! I know the feeling of being happy when someone finds a new job as it leads to just a little more security for you. Good luck in your new position!

Thanks Tia. How has your job been going? Any more thoughts or decisions regarding moving to St. Louis?
 
UP Disney said:
Here's some pixie dust from Tink herself :tink: that it continues to have been the right decision. The stress you have been through is not easy but I'm glad you have both been lucky ones.

Thanks Vicki. Although it has been stressful, I have continued to keep everything in perspective. Even if we had lost our jobs or do in the future, the most important things to us are family and health. During the time I was going through uncertainty, a good number of our friends did lose their jobs, a good friend of mine lost her battle with melanoma, hurricanes took away people's homes and livelihoods in Louisiana, Mississippi, etc., and the list of more terrible things than my concerns goes on and on. So though I did need to share my story, I thank God everyday for the blessings that we have in our lives, and I normally try not to complain.
 
Denise -

I am so sorry you are in limbo

I agree you should get a second opinion - mom instincts are VERY powerful!!

I am so sorry that Rees has to go through this!!

HUGS and PRAYERS!!
 
julia & nicks mom said:
Hey

the doctor has no idea what is going on and decided to send Nick for a CT Scan - so we headed to Children's Hospital and he was uncooperative and freaked when they put him in the machine so he will have to be sedated - unfortunately he had eaten a few hours before and he has to go 8 hours without eating - so we could wait until tonight to see when they could fit us in or go back tomorrow at 12:30

we decided to wait - I think it is good the doctor doesn't feel the test is urgent - and she told me she really does not expect the test to find anything but she really wants to rule out all the "yucky stuff: (her words) first

I am doing my best to keep the negative thoughts out - but they of course creep in every once in a while

she told me obviously the first concern is a brain tumor with the symptoms - but he does not present as a child with a tumor - his motor skills and function is normal - but she would rather be safe than sorry

So I am in for a long 24 hours as I am sure I will not sleep well - please keep Nick in your prayers!!

Prayers and PD sent to Nick, and all of you! :wizard: :wizard: :wizard: :wizard:
 
triplefigs said:
The doctor just called with the results from all his tests. It is a mixed bag. Rees refluxed 22 times during the 48 hour period. He shouldn't reflux at all with the Fundo, so the reflux is breaking through. The doctor said he feels that it is borderline with what to do. He would prefer to hold off on surgery until Rees is older, so that the Fundo would hopefully last through adulthood. The Fundo tends to break down as kids grow, so the longer you can wait the better. So the good news is he will not have surgery immediately. But the bad news is that there is a problem again. We will try to manage it with diet and medicine until the point that doesn't work anymore. We are to watch Rees for failure to gain weight, asthma attacks, pneumonia, and episodes of vomiting/retching. I'm glad we know what is going on now, but I feel like we are caught in the middle at this point. So, I'm kind of happy, but not at the same time. It's hard to explain. I guess we're in limbo.

I appreciate so much everyone's prayers.

Here's hoping the medicine and diet work well and take care of Rees's problems. :wizard: :wizard:
 
ellenbenny said:
Thanks Tia. How has your job been going? Any more thoughts or decisions regarding moving to St. Louis?

It's not bad, just not good either. I think that we will almost certainly move now, the question is just when. I need to start looking in earnest and we'll see from there.
 
tmfranlk said:
It's not bad, just not good either. I think that we will almost certainly move now, the question is just when. I need to start looking in earnest and we'll see from there.

I'm sorry it's not going better, but it does really sound from everything that you have said that you will be better off in the long run to be close to family. Finding a new job and moving will be stressful, but hopefully the payoff will be worth it. At least for me being near family is very important, and it sounds like it will provide you with a lot of companionship and support that you need. Good luck with the job search. At least Kodak offered us a lot of career services while we were going through layoffs, and I was able to take classes on resume writing, interviewing etc. and it really helped.
 
I am watching AI and all I have to say is

THAT IS THE TAYLOR I LOVE!!!!!!!!!
 
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