Unless they are going to cut my tuition, there is no way an IVY is going to work with you or for you. I know Harvard tuition is free for those who have a low income but for the rest of the students, unless you are rich, you will be in hock until you die. The best thing you can do is pick a lucrative career to pay off that loan. I would NEVER send my child to an IVY (if they were accepted). If she was good enough to get into an IVY, I'd send her to a good state school on a FREE ride.
Ahem.....from Harvard
http://http://www.fao.fas.harvard.edu/icb/icb.do
Our new financial aid policy has dramatically reduced the amount families with incomes below $180,000 are expected to pay, and parents of families with incomes below $60,000 are not expected to contribute at all to college costs. We no longer consider home equity as a resource in our determination of a family contribution, and students are not expected to take out loans, which have been replaced by need-based Harvard scholarship.
This new program has reduced the cost to middle income families by one-third to one-half, making the price of a Harvard education for students on financial aid comparable to the cost of in-state tuition and fees at the nations leading public universities.
...from Princeton
http://http://www.princeton.edu/admission/financialaid/
By the late 1990s it became clear that we needed to do more, and in 2001 the University implemented a variety of financial aid improvements to create the best possible need-based aid program. Central to this program is our groundbreaking "no loan" policy; Princeton was the first university to offer every aid recipient a financial aid package that replaces loans with grant aid (scholarships) that students do not pay back.
.....from Yale
http://http://www.yale.edu/admit/freshmen/financial_aid/yale_cuts_costs.html
The reduction in costs will be spread across a broad range of incomes. Families with incomes below $120,000 will see their contributions cut by more than 50%, while most families with incomes between $120,000 and $200,000 will see cost reductions of 33% or more.
Families earning less than $60,000 annually will not make any contribution toward the cost of a childs education, and families earning $60,000 to $120,000 will typically contribute from 1% to 10% of total family income. The contribution of aided families earning above $120,000 will average 10% of income.
I'm not saying an Ivy is the be all and end all, but they certainly have the means to help middle and lower income families to send their students to these colleges. Most state universities do not. I'm not knocking a state education in any way but name recognition as well as connections go a long way.