The Bachelor-Brad Womack Take 2--Monday, Jan. 3 NO SPOILERS!

[Starbrite]

My 1st thought when I saw the treehouse...Where's the bathroom?

 

[Magic Mom]

That tree house is all open, no privacy at all

How else will they ensure the cameras get to catch everything? Bradley NEEDS his camera time!

 

[DonDraper]

There's no bathroom? I mean I like to camp, but not on a "fantasy dream date."

Take a squat at a nearby tree and have Brad as the lookout for animals trying to make a run at you..

 

[DonDraper]

Aww! I'm so flattered that you have given me the power to emotionally affect you so much. Thanks for letting me know this is one of your emotional buttons and that I can yank your chain if I say again that someone not wealthy enough is not therefore not good enough.

Seriously though, if I did say that? So what? It's just a thought, an opinion about Brad. Right? Information you notice about me. So what? I am nobody to you. So you shouldn't have any more emotional response than if I said the grass is green. Or even if I said it ugh!!! again.

No one else is having the same emotional reaction, and if they are, certainly not to an extent to need to expressing it with: "ugh!!! not again. " It's not a hot button for them.

Your emotional response is about you. The ugh!!! again. is a RE-stimulation (yes, again) of something that is an issue for you. So what if I may be a wealth snob? It would only matter or irk you if it has an emotional connection for you.

If some nobody from online can illicit a negative emotional response, even a small one, then people in your real life can probably yank your chain/push your button in this area about not being good enough, in more significant ways that really affect your life.

You might think about doing some work to clear this issue , so that when you come across it again you have a neutral response. It's just information you learned about them. (Snobs! ) You can just neutrally shrug at their opinions, then move past the thought or the person because you aren't hooked in. You are at cause over this issue than at effect. Don't give your power away!

Hmm or a more simple solution would be for you to not judge people and relationships by the amount of money in each person's bank account.

 

[Magic Mom]

Take a squat at a nearby tree and have Brad as the lookout for animals trying to make a run at you..

Romantic!

 

[a1tinkfans]

heres my thoughts...Ashley is a goner, all they "do" is try ad figure out what they are doing....The girl with the young child (Emily) another goner, for all his "talk" I think he feels over his head with her/child despite also believing that he is "most" in like/love with her. And so I guess that leave me with Chantal, who just stayed overnight with him... in a treehouse. I still cannot see why these girls have actually fallen in love with this guy, he is so "soft" "wishy washy" to me, but thats just IMHO Of course I wish them All the best

 

[Imzadi]

There's no bathroom? I mean I like to camp, but not on a "fantasy dream date."

I wonder if the guy with the rifle has to go with them when they go to the bathroom?

 

[Cat0727]

That poor elephant.

I cracked up when Brad was running towards Emily. He really likes her.

 

[Magic Mom]

That was definitive.

uuuuhhhhh yeah.

 

[Cat0727]

at the elephants trumpeting while Brad & Emily were kissing

 

[Imzadi]

Hmm or a more simple solution would be for you to not judge people and relationships by the amount of money in each person's bank account.

What I think about other people matters to you why?

 

[Magic Mom]

I predict Emily will "win" because choosing Emily means he looks like the hero. He chose the damsel in distress and her fatherless child. It also means he "won" in terms of Emily forgetting the other guy (her dead fiance) for Brad.

Brad likes his ego stroked incessantly, and he has some weird need to vindicate himself to the reality TV world for his last go round. Choosing Emily would accommodate all that.

 

[Imzadi]

I predict Emily will "win" because choosing Emily means he looks like the hero. He chose the damsel in distress and her fatherless child. It also means he "won" in terms of Emily forgetting the other guy (her dead fiance) for Brad.

Brad likes his ego stroked incessantly, and he has some weird need to vindicate himself to the reality TV world for his last go round. Choosing Emily would accommodate all that.

But, he could be in deep do-do, especially with the NASCAR fans if he breaks her heart later.

 

[Magic Mom]

But, he could be in deep do-do, especially with the NASCAR fans if he breaks her heart later.

That's a good point. But does he have the ablity to think that deeply?

 

[Cat0727]

Brad hasn't said to Chantal he's falling in love with her, has he?

 

[Imzadi]

That's a good point. But does he have the ablity to think that deeply?

He got a lot of negative reactions when he didn't choose either woman from the last show. So he probably knows now to expect people will react to what choices he publicly makes.

 

[Imzadi]

Brad hasn't said to Chantal he's falling in love with her, has he?

No. He's probably breaking another "rule" with Emily again.

 

[Magic Mom]

Is she going to answer the question?

 

[shortbun]

No. He's probably breaking another "rule" with Emily again.

I think he's been in love with her from the beginning. Anyone else? I know I'm in love with her, lol!

I feel bad for Chantal. Ashley will be fine.

 

[Cat0727]

Yeah, watching this date I have a feeling Ashley's a goner.