Originally posted by jrydberg
My strategy is to just ignore most things like that and stick to the important issues. I think most people recognize idiotic comments for what they are, so I let them stand on their own![]()

Originally posted by minniepumpernickel
You sound like a very smart person.![]()

Originally posted by jrydberg
As do you.
Anyone making disparaging remarks ends up showing a lot more about their own character than they probably intended, IMO.
Now back to your regularly scheduled political discussion![]()
See maybe the rest of you all can play nice too.


Originally posted by BedKnobbery2
Oh, good heavens. Why don't you just admit you don't like her for one simple fact--she's John Kerry's wife. If you could honestly read the short bio I posted about her, and surmise that she's done nothing more than attend charitable functions, then I would have to surmise that you have a blind spot regarding her accomplishments.
Originally posted by MICKEY88
I do not dislike her because she's Kerry's wife, I never said I disliked her at all, that's your conclusion..
I've simply been stating the point that being the chairperson of an endowment doesn't neccessarily make someone a great business person,
and if you read the bio you posted, where does it say she did any work, it just lists awards and boards that she sits on,,
many of those types of awards are given to large contributors, or people who allow their name to be connected to a cause,,as for the honorary doctorates, those are also given for charitable reasons, not for WORK done...
again I do not dislike the woman, just pointing out the way the system works, based on first hand observations..
Originally posted by BedKnobbery2
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I doubt, seriously doubt, you can receive several awards for leadership by "sitting in at charitable functions" despite your apparently vast personal experience that shows you otherwise. I mean, come on. Do you seriously think she'd be, what, pouring coffee down at the Waffle House if she hadn't just happened to be married to Sen. Heinz? You honestly believe, truly now, that it doesn't take some kind of business savvy to create an institute to educate people about pensions, savings, and retirement? [/B]
Originally posted by MICKEY88
I'm more impressed by the common people who do the work with the charities, and political campaigns, expecting nothing and receiving nothing, but the satisfaction of knowing that they are gving back to their fellow man..
Originally posted by bsears
You keep saying "many people". If I may I would like to ask so what? Many people can do anythng, that has no bearing on what a particular person does.
Have you actually studies anything about this particular woman you are putting down? Have you heard what the peope who work for her and with her have to say about her committment and efforts? Respectfully, you are so far off base on this one, you are not making any sense at all. Whatever grudge you have against some people who are wealthy you are taking aim at the wrong target with way too may assumptions. And I think it is clear to everyone that you would not be making these assumptions of a Republican.
Originally posted by auntpolly
Rich people are people too!I happen to know a few who give out of the goodness of their heart and for the satisfaction of knowing they are giving back to their fellow man. Don't generalize so much.....good people come in all income brackets!
Originally posted by MICKEY88
I didn't say I wasn't impressed by wealthy people that give for the right reasons, I said I was more impressed by the common people..
I like mashed potatos more than french fries...
does that mean I don't like french fries, heck no,, I could eat french fries with every meal........
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Originally posted by auntpolly
I know a couple of really wealthy people that do things that nobody even knows about -- they don't want it publicized. I just wanted to point out that acts of kindness and generosity are all wonderful no matter where they come from and I'd prefer to look at the individual rather than generalize about them. You don't have to like Teresa. But I don't think you know her well enough to look into her heart and judge the validity or value of her contributions.
I do not dislike her because she's Kerry's wife, I never said I disliked her at all, that's your conclusion..
Does inheriting your husbands fortune make a person a successful business person..?? ( no, managing them does ) she doesn't even do that, financial advisors do
when you're finished rolling your eyes, read your own post, no where does it say she runs the heinz family business, she merely spends the money in a positive way..{she became chairman of The Howard Heinz Endowment and the Heinz Family Philanthropies}
and having seen this up close, millionaires who donate very freely are given the type of awards she received , simply because they supported the cause or made a few phone calls to wealthy friends...quite often all they do is allow their name to be used for a fundraising event, and they get some type of award for their efforts,,
Quite frankly the fact that you have generalized most of your criticisms mitigates nothing. The thread is about a specific person after all. It would be a bit of a stretch for the rest of us to think that while you say this that and the other about "people like her" you actually have nothing against her specifically. I am not saying that you do, just that you yourself have given that impression.if simply attending charitable functions to help raise money is anyones idea of hardwork, or being a brilliant businessman, then she certainly qualifies
Originally posted by faithinkarma
Respectfully, your own words have made people jump to that conslusion. Quite frankly the fact that you have generalized most of your criticisms mitigates nothing. The thread is about a specific person after all. It would be a bit of a stretch for the rest of us to think that while you say this that and the other about "people like her" you actually have nothing against her specifically. I am not saying that you do, just that you yourself have given that impression.
Originally posted by faithinkarma
Sometimnes it does not hurt to stop and take a look at what you have said from other people's perspectives.