Can someone give details about the cheese plate? Thanks!

Can someone give me any thought on if it is a good idea to take a DD3 NOT Potty trained (DON't GET ME STARTED ONE THE ONE), little princess who loves going to tea? Just a mommy and princess (yes we call her princess)thing?
. We took our DD when she was 3 and not completely potty-trained, and she loved the Mrs. Pott's Tea. But she also had ants in her pants which kind of made it less than a relaxing experience for us, and we were worried that she might accidentally damage the fine china. I also took her to the potty right after we placed our order. We all enjoyed our food, and we don't regret going with our DD3, but it is a MUCH more relaxing experience without a little one, IMO
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DS14 (11 then) and I had the grand tea the last time, and found that it was enough to count as a light meal. We did want dinner, but it was very light (split a sandwich and had some cookies). We probably could have eaten a cheese plate too, to be honest. We're leaving in less than a week, and have ressies for next Thursday, yay! We'll probably do the grand again, and we're both big Earl Grey fans.

I probably won't get back to tea until 2012 or 2013 as we're planning on Disneyland and the Disney Cruise in the next couple of years.