I've done the tea several times. It is a favorite of ours (it's not on the Dining Plan if anyone is wondering).
I have had my husband and another male friend join me at various times. They both really enjoyed it as well.
Yes, you can get the teas iced. I often do this on warm days.
You can get anything ala carte...pastries, scones etc.
You can get a to go box for leftovers so I don't see a problem with a box for scones, etc. Don't forget to ask for some extra jars of jam!
We usually have one person get the tea that includes the sandwiches and scones and pastry. The other person gets the tea alone and then adds the cheese and fruit platter and we share. LOVE the cheese platter and fresh fruit!!!
We tend to lounge there for a very long time and have never been rushed. They even bring us extra crackers and fruit to share sometimes if they see us enjoying a particular thing.
Tips: when you get the scones, ask for whipped cream and strawberry jam on the side. The whipped cream is not usually there. You have to request it.
Ask for Angela as your server....she will treat you very well...she's been a CM for a long time and knows lots of tips for all over the World. She is super friendly and chatty if you like that (we do). She also will load you up with over-flowing plates!
We never need dinner after going to this in the late afternoon.
I recommend booking the latest time. It pretty much will take the place of dinner (cost is similar to dinner). And, if you would like to linger, you can stay after when they are no longer seating people and just sip your tea for hours.
If you can't finish your tea (since they give you an entire pot), ask for a to go cup and you can take it with you to enjoy.
The Tea Room sells some of their one of a kind tea blends. I purchased a can of the princess tea on my last visit. It is $19.99 for a can of the tea. It is all hand blended and FRESH. The tea is usually less than 2 weeks old so Angela said it will last at home for over a year. It may seem pricey, but an entire french press (quart) of tea can be made with 1 1/2 teaspoons of their fresh tea leaves.
The teas that are sold in the gift shops are NOT the same thing. Eventhough some of them have the same names (like the mad hatter), they are not the same. They are made by a different company. The Garden room teas are made by a company called 'T'.