IB is a scam, plain and simple.
A little radical, don't you think?
I don't, for a minute, believe IB is a scam. Just like any standardized curriculum, it will be fantastic for some and not so good for others. Many of my son's classmates have received an extremely good education from it.
I also don't believe that IB and AP cannot co-exist as you state. We have very strong programs in all 5 of our high schools. Our IB program is very strong, as is the AP program, as is the honors program. In the one high school, considered the best in the district and one of the best in the state, AP and IB coexist and both are outstanding and offer very full programs.
6 years ago when DS was exploring the IB vs the AP route, our school was one of only 2 in the country where you could also graduate with an IB certificate. You could focus on one or more of the 6 disciplines without having to do the full IB program. So, if you wanted the IB certificate in language arts, but wanted AP in the sciences you could/can do that. This was different than just taking IB classes without being in the program as you could actually graduate with a separate IB certificate in each of the 6 disciplines. This allowed for far more flexibility in a student's curriculum.
I did have one of those driven, high achieving students that would have been the perfect candidate for the IB program. Even in middle school, he was choosing classes to better prepare him for his intended college major. However, after much deliberation, he chose to go the AP route. His plan apparently worked for him as he entered his choice university as a 2nd semester sophomore.
What were some of the factors influencing is decision?
1) He wanted to do sports in high school. Adding in any kind of extra curricular activity is difficult while immersed in the IB program. At the orientation meeting, very few students said they were able to juggle both IB and extracurriculars such as sports or band/orchestra.
2) Our district is very open about how the IB program is not better than the AP route, just different. Both programs are outstanding in academic excellence. Depending on what the student's strengths are and what they are interested in pursuing, in some cases the IB program would be beneficial, in other cases the AP route would be better. If I remember correctly, we received a list of universities that accepted the IB credits vs. the ones that accepted the AP credits. My son's schools of choice/major were all AP schools with only some recognizing the IB program. Thus he was better off,
for his intended major, in the AP program.
3) Being an IB student vs an AP student did not seem to affect scholarship opportunities at all. For instance, the HS my son chose to go to had a strong AP curriculum but no IB program. His graduating class of less than 500 received over $7.5 MILLION in scholarship offers. This was about par with the high achieving high school that had both the AP and IB strand.
4) This is the only negative we ever found with the IB program and it was not a scientific assessment at all. We went to dinner one night with a major university admissions counselor. With no knowledge of my son considering the IB program, she made an off hand comment about IB students regarding how her university always keeps a close eye on IB students as freshman. Not academically as they have that down in spades, but socially. She stated that since these kids have been so focused on work for 4 years and have had little social life, that they often flounder socially when released from the IB constraints. She said that the IB program is a flag to the school counselors and they worry the most about the IB candidates making the transition as incoming freshman. This coincided with some other stories we had heard of IB college freshman not being able to handle the social pressures of college life. It was interesting to hear what were anecdotal stories to us verified by a university expert in her field.
The AP route worked better for our child. Op's best bet is to interview current and past IB students who have the same interests as her son and see if the IB program was a good fit.