Teacher asking for Yankee candles/test.....Update Pg 12 #168

I dont know if I would chalk it up to inexperience though.... maybe to lack of good judment or worse. Anyone with any sense knows this woud have been worng. This teacher needs a serious CHAT with her superiors.

This is true! Look how many of us are not teachers here and all going "HUH? That's not right!" :confused3 when told about it. I've never taken any teaching courses but I would guess somewhere along the way in getting your teaching degree this type of thing is covered as to what not to do.

I would love to find out what she had planned to do with all the candles but I'm thinking the OP is right & she probably won't hear about it UNLESS her son hears about it via student grapevine. I'm glad to see the Principal had other parents calling about it too, so, there were definitely others going "HUH?"
 
Thanks for the update, Disneyglobegirl. You handled it well. If anything else comes up about it, let us know! This thread is one of the strangest I've read on the DIS. And that's saying a lot! :upsidedow
 
I had lots of teachers in high school who would do extra credit for bringing in things. Most of the time it was: Bring in some canned goods and I'll give you 1 extra credit point for each (they were donated to the shelter). I loved this policy (and those 23 points were the reason I passed high school math and graduated).
 
Just want to wish your son WELL in that class. That was one strange way to get extra credit! Glad it was resolved to your satisfaction..............wonder if she'll be teaching there next year?:confused3

...let's just hope that this teacher doesn't take it out on the OP's son....I've seen it in the past where a teacher was reprimanded and made the rest of the school year a nightmare for two of her students....
 

I wonder what some posters would do if their kids were in some of the schools around here that require community service to graduate and are at least as proud of their commitment to teaching kids a sense of community as they are of their high test scores.
It's a requirement for our high school; not sure if it's a state requirement. I think it's wonderful. My DS is a junior and has completed the requirements, and continues to do community service. Community service requirements are separate and apart from grades for classes...he's not earning better grades by doing the community service.
It doesn't matter what it is for, it is just wrong. I am a teacher and the only things you can do to get credit is work hard and turn in all assignments. I will give extra credit for those that struggle but do have everything turned in done to the best of their ability, yet just don't get it for whatever reason. I will work with kids who struggle to help them as best I can, but I will not sell, bargain or negotiate for anything. I don't give extra credit to anyone who doesn't do what was for regular credit. I do have a courtesy policy of automatically dropping the lowest grade of the quarter for each student--hey everyone has a bad day now and again!
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I had lots of teachers in high school who would do extra credit for bringing in things. Most of the time it was: Bring in some canned goods and I'll give you 1 extra credit point for each (they were donated to the shelter). I loved this policy (and those 23 points were the reason I passed high school math and graduated).
Your point? You passed high school Math and graduated because you bought yourself 23 points...yay? :confused3
 
...let's just hope that this teacher doesn't take it out on the OP's son....I've seen it in the past where a teacher was reprimanded and made the rest of the school year a nightmare for two of her students....

We had an incident with one of our girls and I took it up with the principal. He told me that teachers are professional and wouldn't do that. Well, you guessed it. Life was MISERABLE and we got her out. Please, teachers here don't take it wrong. Nothing against you or the profession:hug:. Just this one that we encountered.

Also, our girls had to do community service. They did it in a food bank. Loved the experience but I did find that it took so much time away from homework that they struggled to get everything done. Not sure if it is a good idea.
 
That's different and typically can be accomplished easily if a student uses their noodle. I know opportunities are endless where we live.

Though community service hours are only required for scholarships and some private schools. It isn't a state graduation requirement that I am aware of.


here it is-it's part of the 'navigation 101' program in the public schools (the private school dd considered going to had no community service requirements).

the kids don't get an individual grade for it though-it's one element that is required in order for them to have the complete 'portfolio' they have to have completed by the end of their senior year.

it's actualy pretty cool-this is a multi year program and it's geared to get the students looking at what they might want to do after graduation. the approved community service opportunities are such that the kids will end up doing one that is somehow related to what they perceive is the general field they want to go into, and it takes into consideration that some kids will go into ones that require college/tech school, some will not.

if they are looking at construction, architecture or community planning they might do their time with the local 'habit for humanity'. they get exposed to all the aspects of the program and get an appreciation for how all the different job skills work together.

if they are looking at writing, teaching english or publishing they might work with the local group that does a huge reading/writing event each year that incorporates an academic program at some of the public schools as well as the local university.

in those cases where you have students that are planning on being sahp's or going into social work it could be working with community based organizations that offer parent/child supportive services.


the kids get exposed to professionals in the fields they are interested in, some find the realities of the career they were interested in is in no way what they thought and begin looking at other options, some find that while they were just interested in one aspect of the field there is another aspect they are much more keen on and begin looking into it.


now, the schools have their approved placements and they organize with the groups the placements but in general, depending on the community service a kid wants to do (just for general enjoyment or whatever personal reasons) it can be very competative with few opportunities. our library system for example has strict criteria for volunteers and then you have to make application, wait for an opening and do a paneled interview to compete against all the other applicants. the library (and other groups like it) were tired of investing training and supervision into people that would just flake on them or were going into volunteering believing they would be doing something (and only wanting to do that) that in reality volunteers were precluded from.
so they are very selective-but there's a big non traditional payoff for those selected-when they've successfully completed 6 months of volunteering (with a minimum amount of hours) they qualify to get a formal evaluation identical to an employee-and they can list the library as an unpaid job reference (so the library will release h/r info. and provide letters of reccommendation). this can be huge for those kids trying to get their first paid job.
 
Update - There will be no extra credit for candles:thumbsup2

I want to chalk this up to inexperience on her part as she is new. .

:confused3 I was a new teacher once and it never ever would have crossed my mind to ask for a bribe!

I dont know if I would chalk it up to inexperience though.... maybe to lack of good judment or worse. Anyone with any sense knows this woud have been worng. This teacher needs a serious CHAT with her superiors.

I worry about someone with that horrible of judgment being in charge of classes of children. If you lack that much common sense then are you really capable of teaching high school?
 
This is true! Look how many of us are not teachers here and all going "HUH? That's not right!" :confused3 when told about it. I've never taken any teaching courses but I would guess somewhere along the way in getting your teaching degree this type of thing is covered as to what not to do.

I would love to find out what she had planned to do with all the candles but I'm thinking the OP is right & she probably won't hear about it UNLESS her son hears about it via student grapevine. I'm glad to see the Principal had other parents calling about it too, so, there were definitely others going "HUH?"

I know for my degree (televison production)--I had to take an ethics in media class (which ended up being a poorly taught class in which our professor essentially had us rewrite the textbook in full--I KID YOU NOT! and then focused the rest of the time on the mistreatment of African Americans in the media. But I digress!) We also took a law class that covered the legal aspects of mass communications law. That class was for everyone in the Journalism school so it included advertising, journalism, and television/radio majors.


I have always wondered if other degrees had similar classes.
 
...let's just hope that this teacher doesn't take it out on the OP's son....I've seen it in the past where a teacher was reprimanded and made the rest of the school year a nightmare for two of her students....


Sounds like the principal received multiple complaints.

I would keep tabs on this and report her again if necessary.
 
I had lots of teachers in high school who would do extra credit for bringing in things. Most of the time it was: Bring in some canned goods and I'll give you 1 extra credit point for each (they were donated to the shelter). I loved this policy (and those 23 points were the reason I passed high school math and graduated).

Sounds like more time on math was in order.

My brother STRUGGLED in math, but he did graduate and did go onto college--still struggled in math in college but finally got his necessary credits so that he could graduate.

Did all that without bribery.
 
I worry about someone with that horrible of judgment being in charge of classes of children. If you lack that much common sense then are you really capable of teaching high school?

..or ANY grade, for that matter...:scared:
 
I know for my degree (televison production)--I had to take an ethics in media class (which ended up being a poorly taught class in which our professor essentially had us rewrite the textbook in full--I KID YOU NOT!)...

...apparently THAT teacher never read the book....:rolleyes1
 
now, the schools have their approved placements and they organize with the groups the placements but in general, depending on the community service a kid wants to do (just for general enjoyment or whatever personal reasons) it can be very competative with few opportunities. our library system for example has strict criteria for volunteers and then you have to make application, wait for an opening and do a paneled interview to compete against all the other applicants. the library (and other groups like it) were tired of investing training and supervision into people that would just flake on them or were going into volunteering believing they would be doing something (and only wanting to do that) that in reality volunteers were precluded from.
so they are very selective-but there's a big non traditional payoff for those selected-when they've successfully completed 6 months of volunteering (with a minimum amount of hours) they qualify to get a formal evaluation identical to an employee-and they can list the library as an unpaid job reference (so the library will release h/r info. and provide letters of reccommendation). this can be huge for those kids trying to get their first paid job.

That's what I was wondering -- if it was required, I was wondering how the organizations felt about kids just coming in there because they *had* to not that the wanted to.

I know my DD volunteers for the local animal shelter and they won't do it just for a 1 time school credit type of thing. They have to take an orientation and then have to be mentored before they can actual do the volunteering on their own. They also have to commit to 4 hours/month, although they do let that slide if you let them know ahead of time as to why/what is going on, KWIM? My DD was out for surgery for several months but then went back as a counselor for the summer camp -- she had never done that before and LOVED it. She wants to do it again next year, so instead of being a back-up counselor since the original one couldn't make it -- we hadn't planned on her doing this since when they asked for volunteers she was recooperating. The shelter did let her count her hours.

Although, it's not required in our school to graduate, they do have a program & you get recognition if you do 50+ every year. My DD knocks out those 50 hours pretty much in the summer.

They also let you double-dip. I found out Freshman year, the cheerleaders & the gymnasts (my DD was both), had to work food booths at our local fair -- they were told it was a requirement BUT then I found out those hours could also be counted toward the volunteer program.
 
This is true! Look how many of us are not teachers here and all going "HUH? That's not right!" :confused3 when told about it. I've never taken any teaching courses but I would guess somewhere along the way in getting your teaching degree this type of thing is covered as to what not to do.
I would love to find out what she had planned to do with all the candles but I'm thinking the OP is right & she probably won't hear about it UNLESS her son hears about it via student grapevine. I'm glad to see the Principal had other parents calling about it too, so, there were definitely others going "HUH?"

Okay, I graduated a looong time ago so maybe I have simply forgotten, but I do not think we did cover something like this (ie--teachers should not accept bribes for grades). Why? Well, pressumably because it is just so dang obvious. I don't think I was ever specifically taught that teachers should not do a strip tease in the classroom or call paretns up and curse at them or any one of a million other obviously innappropriate things. This teacher exibited poor judgement plain and simple. Anyone over about age 10 should know better. I don't think it is a big enough deal to warrant her being fired, but I do hope administration has a serious talk with her and keeps a very close eye on her from now on. The fact that it was not even a spur of the moment bad decision which she regreted by next period and recanted but instead was planned out and she would then email it to a parent is really telling.
 
I'm glad the principal is on top of things. I agree with those who say this teacher lacks any good judgement. How could she ever think that was ok?
 
I'm completely opposed to community service requirements for graduation. Fortunately we don't have them here, but I think they are ridiculous. My kids (and their parents) are involved in various community service activities because that's something we value as a family, but it should have nothing at all to do with school. Schools have a hard enough time focusing on teaching subject matter. They should keep their noses out of things that don't concern them, and stop trying to control how people spend their time out of school.


I agree 100% and I am a teacher!;)
 



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