I am working full time/ going to school full time right now. I did the same for my AA degree.

Good for us. Did you have children when you worked through college? Did your wife? Its a whole different story when you do.
I am not saying that anyone CAN'T learn a job skill to help them make more money, but you cannot expect someone to tell their kids "hold on honey, I will buy you some food in 6 weeks when I get out of school". The programs I spoke of are 6 weeks or less. They don't need to get loans because it would only hurt the colleges in the long run because of the number that may not finish or not pay the loans back. There are only so many work study positions at a school, but that could be an alternative too.
I really don't care how many hours they worked or when they worked them. If just a few of them had been willing to give up those bonuses to keep from hurting the working man, I may look at things a little different. I would rather see my money go to a struggling family that is just trying to make it than in the pocket of on of them.
Of course there will always be a class system. That doesn't mean you allow children to starve. Its the "teach a man to fish" theory. If they have the ability to obtain a job but yet refuse one, then they can be considered as taking advantage and cut from receiving aid. As long as they are actively trying (with documentation from the employement office), they should be able to receive aid, not much someone can do about not being able to find a job.
I find your "ghetto" remark offensive. But other than that, at least the person getting "all the grants" (btw, there is only Pell and maybe two other small grants available) is getting an education. If they drop classes or fail their classes, they lose financial aid.
And the government is not "watching kids", they are paying a supplement to help pay for child care while someone is in school or working. You have to be penniless, almost, to get it and it is paid straight to the center.
Everyone of government assistance is not lazy. Many are uneducated, some just cannot find a job. "walk a mile in his shoes" and all, ya know?
You said you are making $118,000 a year and you begrudge $12 a month? really?
Those remarks are just too sickening for words.